My name is Mike, I'm now 39 Divorced just about 5 years now. A friend of mine guided me to this site and it's been interesting but still havn't found what I'm looking for.

Well a little bout me, I love living by the ocean. You can find me exercising up on the boardwalk almost everyday. Nothing more mind clearing and spiritual than that time up on the boardwalk. I live right across the street from it in Belmar. I also play drums. Not great but good. Also, I play softball on a co=ed league up in Union County. Music is a big part of my life. Always listening to something and always looking for a new tune.

I have a cat named Sammy, who might have been the best thing to happen to me ever, he's great, very friendly. Not a lap cat but friendly.

I am looking for someone loving and careing that might be able to keep up with me. Either on my 6 mile daily jaunts or join me on the softball field or at the gym. Most importantly the loving and careing. I believe relationship are a 2 way street.

I could go on but at 1am on a Saturday, I'm ready for bed...hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for reading.

All depends what we decide on together. I'm open.