Athletic, fit, intelligent, educated, occasionally funny, professional, classy, warm, witty, clever, charming, compassionate, gentle, affectionate, well-traveled, humble, gentleman interested in friendship, passion, and yes, eternal love is now available. Please note constraints below.

Recently divorced, I have had part time (50%) custody of my kids(ages 11, 9, and 5). However, their Mom has moved to Connecticut about 50 miles away from me. They started school there in September and from now forward I will only be able to see them on weekends. As a result, I will have a LOT more time available than I am accustomed to so would like to use the opportunity to rediscover a social life. I am interested in finding someone interested in sharing that time in a variety of ways and ultimately I am interested in something long-term and lasting, but I am not feeling rushed to find that. That said, I do believe that "chemistry" has a role to play in successful relationships and that the strongest chemical reactions tend to happen rather suddenly and quickly.

In my spare time, I enjoy live music, good food, reading, baseball(including coaching little league), cycling, travel and outdoor activities, and all the other stuff I listed in the "interests" section. Apologies for being a little redundant.

By the way, one point of clarification regarding the "Do you want children?" question. I answered this with a yes because I already have 3 of them and have no intention of giving them away, not necessarily because I am looking to create more of them. That said it is important that you either have children of your own (probably roughly the same age range) or really, really love children because mine are simply a huge part of my life and who I am. And yes, with the right person in the right relationship I would consider having more.

Over a glass of wine or cafe latte (or both if we really hit it off) I would charm and dazzle you so that afterward you will be consumed with anticipation of our first real date four or five days later.