I enjoy an active lifestyle and occasionally hanging out. Prefer anything BUT a solid relationship. Anything I mention about what I am looking for, goes the same for men and women. However, I am not looking to find women to hang out with, since I am the most comfortable around men. Smoking does not really fit into my life style, nor do I find it very attractive. I like men who can take control of a situation and make decisions on his own. If you leave the decision up to me, I WILL make it. I have been told that I think like a man but act like a woman, and therefor, am super easy to hang out with. Ah, the pet-pevs. I wish I wasn't so picky, but somethings tend to bother me. Sloppy eating habits, especially since I love to eat at restaurants. Insecurity, biggest turn off. A huge sign is continuous negativity and the won't to try new things. Machismo men just don't do it for me. You will find me to be quite enlightening and humorous by far, since I tend to poke fun at myself , if it means making people laugh. I like strong, exciting, working men. No drug dealers please (not my kind of excitement). A man who can play pool and accept losing without making an excuse every time the shot is missed. And no flukes. I play straight. I like a challenge, try me, I'll try anything within reason. I'm pretty down to earth and my humor can sometimes be a bit nasty,(that's an understatement). I rarely take offense to humor of a sexual nature or crude jokes, in fact, I appreciate them. I'm assertive but not rude. I am definitely not shy and willing to break the ice of I have to. I don't feel I have high standards, just simple, ethical ones. New to the city? I know a few good sights. I'm not a bar hopper, but I can get around them if I need to. We can negotiate on something fun, I like almost everything from sports to live theater, from mini golf to camping, but NOT country music. So let's do something exciting!!! I have to let you know though, if I don't respond right away, or answer an ongoing message, it's only because I'm not addicted to this site, and only come on a few times a week. So be patient and I will respond, but only to the ones with some substance.

I like trying new things and am into multi-cultural experiences. For the more adventurous types, let's go on a roller coaster, go tobogganing in off limit areas, or any kind of motor between my legs will do.

PS. MSN cassidyfoxx@hotmail.com