First off, let me just clarify that I am very family oriented. I have two beautiful children who mean the world to me. Since they are so wonderful I shared them with their daddy who loves them just as much.
Since I share them I now have some time to take care of me for a change. I enjoy nature walks, beaches, horseback riding, music (I love to sing) whether I'm good or not that's for you to decide . I also enjoy good food (hence the extra pounds)
What I'm looking for is someone who is independent and headstrong. Who is not afraid of someone with a strong personality. Someone who is comfortable with who they are and confident. Who is not afraid to put me back in my place when I need ot be ( which is not very often )Basically I'm looking for a best friend with benefits.
What I don't like is mind games, Immatures, boozers (If you can't handle your booze I can't handle you.)

For a first date, I thnk I would like to keep it short. Maybe go for coffee and a walk where we can talk quietly and see if we have similar interests.