UPDATE: I've been on here for a while now and not sure if I will stay. So far most of the guys that contacted me have only wanted sex. I know sex is important in a relationship but just sex does not constitute one. It also is not what I am looking for. I can find that any day of the week. So if you are a real man, that wants a real relationship with a really good woman, then contact me. If all you really want is sex, please leave my heart alone!! And I have to say, I need a physical attraction to you, and the same for you to me. Chemistry really is important!!! In the meantime my heart is in a little metal box, waiting for the one that holds the key.

I guess I should start with my name is Kim and I've never been married (but when I do get married it will be for life), no kids, both by choice. My last relationship was over 27yrs long and we split on good terms. We haven't spoken since but still good terms. He moved to another state. His loss and I hope somebody elses gain. Drama free!! I won't sit up here and tell you family is important to me, that's a given and as it should be. Yes I love my family! Same goes for GOD, he is in my life and always will be. Please note before you go on, if you are married DO NOT contact me unless you just want to talk. I will not cheat with you on your wife. If the marriage is not working....get a divorce or counseling, cheating is not the answer!

Now... I am a very outgoing woman. I love life and all it has to offer. I adore animals whether it be a dog or other kind, I just happen to have cats. Not sure who owns who though. I live in the Chicago area but work in Lombard out in the burbs. If you want to know what I like to do for fun just ask. I have a huge heart and can and do put others before my own needs. My favorite holiday is Halloween and yes I still dress up. It's the kid in me that I will never give up! I will always remain young at heart. This also means I love amusement parks so be prepared to sit in either the front or the back, where all the fun is on a roller coaster!! Though I may be a kid at heart sadly I am pass having any. But I do love them!! And they love me. As for food, yep I eat. I love Mexican, the hotter the better. I will try anything at least once before I say I don't like it. I'm open to most music but really cannot handle heavy metal, but still love the people associated with it. I have a very soft side but at the same time a tough one. I need the tough one to go after the people I do for my job.....bankers and brokers!! And I do LOVE my job. I also starting working out again, feels good.

I absolutely love harleys and outdoor activities. This does not mean I only go for biker types, I just love bikes and the carefree feeling that goes with them. It also does not mean you have to have a motorcycle. I also love to cuddle and watch a good scary movie, especially in front of an open fire. I have a great sense of humor, quick wit and can even laugh at myself. I believe laughter is good for the soul. I love to cook and do it well. Dancing is a passion of mine and I try to do it as often as possible. I've done the bar thing and really am growing quite tired of it. I think for myself and at times you may call me stubborn when I believe in what I say. I can get lost watching a thunderstorm, they facinate me. Watching a sunset,sunrise or just the stars can be just as facinating as is all nature has to offer. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. Leads to no confusion.

I am a very low maintenance type of woman. I may wear skirts with heels a lot but have no problem getting my hands dirty also! I can be just as comfortable in my jeans. I'd change the oil on my car.....If I knew how. Care to teach me? I'm a very laid back woman and very easy to get along with. I truly am not the typical woman. But a very good one.

I'm looking for someone to give me the feeling of butterflies.....not a one nite stand. I want to make love....not have sex. I want to share all of me and all life has to offer with that someone special. I do love romance, flowers for no reason and a message just to say I'm being thought of. I have no problem showing affection in public. I've been told that I am a very good kisser, which I enjoy doing.....wanna see?

WOW that was alot of me me me but after all it is the ABOUT ME section. Now if you want to know what kind of man I am looking for that is yet to be determined. I don't believe in limiting my choices to certain types. I may miss my diamond in the rough if I do that but I do have to say I like taller than me. Oh and I do like bald men especially with goatees. But that doesn't mean only bald men, i'll take hair too, lol. Why don't we talk and let's see if YOU are who I am looking for.

Other than that I think I will leave the rest up to discovery. I will say the pictures of me on here are current only months old. No surprises unless me looking better than the pictures counts.

Oh yeah one last thing.....if you add me as a favorite at least say HI!!!! If you can add me you can talk to me!! Believe me I don't bite....unless requested. I would also like to say though I may look at your profile I probably will not write.

I have written in the past with no response and that can get a woman discouraged, lol. So if I peeked and you are interested you know where to write me if you like.

I also would like to know....why do so many men YELL on their profiles??????


Good luck in your search!!.....

A nice long ride on that bike of yours, a good dinner, some dancing, a great conversation while walking along a lake. A quiet evening enjoying a sunset. Hell why not all of the above. You may not want the evening to end. Then there is always a picnic for the really laid back date. You can throw in a hot air balloon ride, lol.

I'm open to most anything as long as it is not a movie because you just can't get to know a person there and then, unless it's a private viewing. I'm always open for suggestions. Let's just have fun!