Hello, a little about me: I have a son. He means the world to me. If you look at a man's children as competition look somewhere else. If you look at a man as a blank slate, someone to "mold and change", I'm not for you. I've been down that road and I'm better off alone than being in that sort of relationship. What I want (OK, need) is someone who can make ME laugh. I love to laugh, and to make people laugh. Someone who loves family, and not just her own. I need to be with a fun loving person, with a big heart, and compassion. Someone who knows that love is an unconditional emotion that is rooted in support and mutual admiration. I love treating my better half with romantic gestures. Breakfast in bed, surprise kisses, back rubs, flowers sent to the workplace, a great meal waiting for her when she gets home. The problem I've had is nobody has done that for me in return.
I'm a fun loving person who loves to do things at the drop of a hat. Life is too short not to laugh as often as you can ( you have to enjoy someone who is a little off kilter). I'm not looking for a hook up, I'm looking for someone who has great heart and wants to be with one person.

Also I'm a mountain person more than a beach person. I used to have a place at the beach that I was dragged to every weekend for four years, so I'm a bit burned out on the coast. I would like to be with someone who is willing to go to the mountains sometimes. Maybe to go and cheer ASU to another national championship. If I were with someone who would be willing to go to the high country, I'd be more than willing to head to the sand. Compromise is what it's all about, right?
And I'm a cat person
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