If you are looking and actually reading this first think to yourself, are you a girl that thinks a guy should email first or do everything first? Or better yet do looks matter to you? If so stop looking and go find the usual douchebag that is out there and wonder why you can't find a guy who is actually a true friend. I don't care to date a girl I want a women. One that understands that women fought for their rights and will use them. Chivalry never existed it's just good manners. Stop belittling yourself and trying to use someone to do something you are fully capable of doing yourself. I don't ask you to wipe my ass do I? Like I said I prefer a real women who knows what she wants and doesn't care about anything other then who I genuinely am. IF that isn't you then good luck in being unhappy. I know the usual bs games guys pull and the bs chasing game girls pull, go fool someone else. I earn everything myself and want a real women that will meet me half way and understands it's the friendship that makes the bond in the relationship. So if you want something in life go after it, you don't care for mama boys now do you? What makes you think I want that in a girl? Oh and if you serial date, meaning you have one guy you are talking too but keep focused on seeing what is out there, well news flash honey you don't know what you want so don't waste my time. It's that lack of effort in seeing who that person really is, is what will keep you from learning what you want and finding it. Go be insecure else where thanks. Oh and I'm not unhappy I'm very happy and value life in ways no one else can. Unlike most I see life in a smaller spectrum and if you think age matters it doesn't. I had bullets fly past me at a young age and thank the six years in the military. Doesn't mean you know more than me just because you are older, in fact you older crisis women that need to get married can stick to societies rules and infamous genius and go find a desperate guy that will pump you full of kids and give you a ring.I value life greatly and I will not waste a moment of it with substandard people who lack quality. I go after what I want in life and I'm very blunt about it. I'm the guy who will tell you exactly what I think about how you look when you ask how a dress looks for example. If you are too sensitive to accept the answer and over look the fact that I'm with you says more then my honest opinion, then once again grow up and don't write to me. In fact email me telling me you don't want me to write to you so I can go on. If you are also out of shape don't bother, looks don't matter to me(I will not limit my life and stick to certain things I believe each girl has her own thing and show me what that beauty is, so I believe looks matter in how you present it only)but over all health shows the drive you have in life and says a lot about your character overall in other aspects. Good luck to all and to sum it up if you are pissed at what I wrote good because I'm not here to impress anyone but a true women and just one women if she happens to be on here.

Now if you made it this far you actually care to learn who someone is, awesome and ignore all the bs above. Don't be afraid to say hi I don't bite, just the ones that ignore what I wrote and comment about the picture ;op

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qH1uo4UcPl4 ~~~enjoy! haha

I don't date, I prefer to be friends first. So anything fun, stress free that lets us be ourselves and see if a bond grows. Shocking since that is all dating and a relationship really is. So no labels thanks!