I would like to meet someone who is my equal. He should be kind and caring, with strong family values. He should be willing to give each new relationship everything he has, no matter how many less than perfect relationships he has been in. He should be willing to learn new things and be able to show me some new ones in return.

It is not so important what you do on a first date as it is who you are with. Keep in mind there is a difference between a first date and a "meet and greet".