Well I do have to say that I'm a very outgoing man. I work alot and find myself working seven days a week sometimes. I was married for 17 years and it's been 4 years since my divorce. For most of those 4 years I had a wall up however I have come to the conclusion that I need to start living again this requires me to let go of the past and move forward, in other words get rid of the wall and be open to a new relationship. I enjoy many things that life has to offer such as skiing, watersports, hiking, rock climbing, swimming, movies, good dining, of course the beach and pretty much open to anything. I am self-employed, stable, and for the most part life is good but.... There is something missing and I believe I know what that is and so if you have a moment or two I would love the chance to get to know you.

Not a movie, that's for sure. Fine dinning would actually work better and definately keep in mind that the first date should be in a quite place with good ambiance. We should try not to make it a long dinner because two people who are just getting to know each other will know in the first half hour or so whether the connection is being made or not. Then proceed with another date of her preference. Next is to sweep her off her feet.