This site isn't exactly "working" for me, so I figure I shall do my best to help others in their quest. Below I shall list some solid psychological observations that probably hinder many women from achieving exactly what they want. These hints are indeed psychological observations through the male perspective. These hints are just that hints, in no way am I trying to tell you what to do. But I can promise you that if you take these hints to heart you'll see good results.

If you aren't looking just for sex then stop selling that image.
This really quit simple, If you are trying to tell men that you want to be seen as more than a sex object or as only a source of sex, then don't put up pictures of mass amounts of cleavages, you showing off mass amounts of skin, you appearing to be shirtless, or ones that are just of your rear end. These pictures send one clear message to men "SEX"! This may not be your intention, but this is simply how the male brain works. It's not because we are shallow, its how we are programmed and well how society has told us to act.

Your profile picture should be of you only
Please don't have your profile picture be you and your female friends. There is something misleading about it. You click on a profile and low and behold you find out the woman you hoped belong to the profile isn't that woman. It appears that some women tend to use their cute friends to get men to pay attention to them. Just have a picture of you alone and you'll more or less get a message with that profile view.

Don't use pictures with men cropped out of them
Nothing screams to a man that you aren't over your ex than seeing a picture with his arm wrapped around you and him cropped out of the picture. It doesn't attract men but rather scares them away. We don't care if "I look amazing in the pciture" "it was a cute dress" etc. Seeing another man's arm wrapped around a woman in a picture on a dating website is not wise. Again you aren't going you attract a soul with these pictures, especially if you are laying on the man's chest.

Pictures with your child in it as your default picture isn't wise
I understand that your child is a HUGE part of your life. But pictures like that broadcast the message you're looking for a father for your child. If you are its bound to happen, but this isn't the first message you want to send out. Because you have a lot to worry about if a guy wants this right away as well. Your goal should be to attract a guy and then see if he is even decent enough to bring around your child. Then you take it from there.

Photoshop is NOT your friend
Pictures that are altered from their orginal form aren't to wise to use. Making your picture look all fancy with different shadings, colorings, special effects, etc is not attractive. Most of the time these effects hide what you really look like and well that's more or less lying. Adding special effects to a picture was awesome when we were 14 and 15 and we just learned about them. For the most part they're childish and distracting. There are few women out there that have the proper grasp on how to use photoshop, key word - few.

Profile Length: not to long or to short
Profiles that are a novel are just to much to read and make a man's interest lessen. Also it puts us in a bad bind to write a message. We don't want to ask a question that has already been answered. But we don't want to be in place where we can't remember everything that was said. Also a profile that is really short is bad, there must be enough information to at least get some sort of spark going. A really short profile leaves you stuck with simply saying "Hi, How are you" which is very bad. Simply put: Have a profile long enough to tell us what you like to do for fun, what music you are into (saying everything doesn't work), what your hobbies are, what you do for work, etc. Keep it nice and simple, keep it in the middle.

Saying you had bad luck with men is HORRIBLE!
There is nothing like scaring a man away by saying this. It screams to us that you have past baggage and you are bringing it in full force. It also tells a man that he is going to be cleaning up after other men in your past. You don't like a man saying women have treated them wrong, don't do it to us.

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