In my past, I was a bar hopper....I'm tired of that. I want to find someone that enjoys going out but also enjoys doing things together. I still play pool, but now it is on a league twice a week instead of every other night. I like to work around the house, go for bike rides, bowling with my kids, helping them with their homework and I enjoy my job. I like movies of all types, and music that has a good beat and you can hear AND understand the words. I hear enough garbled, head banging no comprehensible word songs at stop lights. I like playing with my kids during the days that I have them, and relaxing in a hot tub at night. I am not into drama and am not looking for drama. What I am looking for is a lady that I can enjoy time with... and she with me, and see where it goes from there. I've always been a one woman man and hope to find a woman that only wants one man.....in other words ...no players or liars please because thats a waste of both our time.