I'm not a fan of smoking so if you are a smoker you may wanna move on to the next profile. I dont mind so much if you smoke just as long as you dont exhale!! Pretty much all tobacco product are a deal breaker for me. Now, with that said, I'm a soon to be 41 yr old who's secure, effervescent, confident, very independent, young mother of 2 tween-aged boys. I'm optimistic, witty, and have a great sense of humor. I enjoy cooking but the cleaning part I lack enthusiasm with. LOL I also enjoying being home and spending time with my family. I like boating, working out in my yard, trying to stay active and fit.....I'm not overly a fan of most sports....but I can tolerate a "moderate" amount of them! I can be a very loving, affectionate, sensual and sexual person with the right person. As I mentioned before, I also have 2 precious little boys who are my heart and soul and my life and we come as a package deal.

My idea of the perfect first date: be creative and I am sure I would enjoy anything you plan. I most enjoy anything that has to do with music and/or the arts....and really enjoy dancing! Lots of affection and gentle kisses...GOTTA HAVE KISSES!!!!

My perception of an ideal relationship: Communication and CHEMISTRY...Trust and honesty would have to be at the top of the list....not to mention communication is a MUST.....did I say that already? LOL For me physical attraction is quite important, though I'm not a shallow person who is hung up on looks alone. I'm no perfect "size 3" but I feel I am a pretty lady. My eyes are my greatest asset! I have beautiful "bedroom eyes" I've been told.

Men often times are most attracted by sight....one of my biggest attractions is a pleasing smell.... I'm a scent person....so if a man wears cologne that is attractive to my senses...I'm yours!!!!!

About the one I'm looking for: I want someone who has a great personality, is financially secure, independent, confident, has a great sense of humor but not sarcastic and who enjoys music and arts of all kinds. you gotta love music and dancing....those are both part of my heart and soul.

I think the first things I look at when I see a man, the things that I am most attracted to are his eyes, teeth, his chest and then his tush! You got all those things going for you then you might be my man!!!*LOL* ....And I want a man who will enjoy spending time with me, someone who I can be intimate with and have a connection and CHEMISTRY with....

I'm on here looking for COMPANIONSHIP, CHEMISTRY, physical attraction, CHEMISTRY, laughter, intimacy, CHEMISTRY, closeness and something that WILL POSSIBLY WORK INTO A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. There is SO MUCH more to know about me...if I have striked an interest....please contact me. if you think you might want to know more...I'm waiting to hear from YOU!! D/D Free and NON-Smokers (no tobacco products either) only need reply. MUST HAVE PHOTO ATTACHED FOR REPLY EMAIL. ~Lady M~

Someone recently told me, love does still exist and is still out there to find if you have Faith. Faith makes things possible, not easy. Never lose your Hope and Faith and good things are bound to happen in your life one day soon.

I'm keeping the Faith!!!!