I'M "REAL"
I'M "HONEST"......
I'M TRUTHFUL TO THE POINT OF PAIN, IF YOU DON'T WANT THE ANSWER,DON'T ASK THE QUESTION.
i'm an all around "nice guy"...there's a few things i want to talk about here on POF,i find it totally un-freakin'-believable that you women HAVE to put in your profiles "must not be married"...do these guys think all women are "dumb" and you'll never find out!?
another thing....
"be honest"...i see it on many profiles! ok...let's be totally "honest" here....
women also put in their profiles "must not be looking for intimate encounter"...ummmm,correct me if i'm wrong here but,ISN'T THAT WHAT WE'RE ALL HERE FOR!? lol i'm not talking about sex,i'm talking holding,kissing,snuggling and cuddling....a "relationship",someone to hold,share,laugh,love...it's all "intimate",is it not? aren't those the things that we all miss and "long" for? let's be "honest"....how many of you women out there put "no" for an answer on if you do drugs or not? Marijuana IS a drug ladies,i feel it's the lesser of the 2 evils but from the way things went this last election,it seems more people smoke the stuff than we all thought,huh? lol let's be "honest" is on most of the profiles i've seen out here,practice what you preach...lol i have had a lot of experiences in my life,a few yrs ago i had an accident,no...i wasn't hurt at all or disfigured in any way...lol but this was a VERY close call and it made me more of a "realist" and i try to see things for what they are,i spend more time with family and friends and sunsets look a lot prettier to me now!
UPDATE:...i just gotta say there's some women out here that give you all a bad name,although i've met some very decent women here,a few are very close friends now,but i'm starting to get a bit discouraged with POF....Does it REALLY have to be this hard to find a decent woman with a good heart,an honest woman? i don't hang in bars and if i did,would i really want a woman that goes to bars to pick up men? we're not getting any younger here ladies,i'm a "good" and "honest" man with a TON of love to give to the right woman,sooo what's keeping you?! i recently met a woman from here and thought she was the "one" but i'm pretty sure this one was a "playa" cuz she just couldn't find time to spend with me,filling me full of lies to keep me on the line,ladies,if you're a "playa" ...move on,i'm tired of getting "booty calls" all the time from women that just want sex,I WANT IT ALL! sex is only a phone call away if that was all i wanted,i want a nice,HONEST woman that's lookin to settle down and enjoy life with me...does it have to be so hard?

i'd call it more of a meeting to see if there will be "spark" enough for a date,go to my favorite beach and burn one watchin' the sunset? mover83 on yahoo...hit me up ladies!