Beta dog here, no alpha. An artsy-fartsy kind of guy, I'm a soft-spoken real

gentleman with an inner lil' bad boy, who’s shy at first but opens up to the right

woman, a man who enjoys the arts, music, film, movies, literature and when affordable,

fine living. I enjoy making and eating homemade waffles with real maple syrup with

gourmet coffee and engaging conversations about PBS or NPR stories, movies or books

museums or weekend trips to historical sites or intimate romantic get-a-ways. I like

drinking great beer with the boys but also enjoy a bottle of fine wine with a loaf of

French bread, exported cheese and fresh fruit with my lady.


I appreciate intelligent, independent and strong willed women. A lady who may have been

raised with a traditional upbringing but may now live a non-traditional lifestyle, a

woman who enjoys the adventure and imagination of history, past, present, possible

future and most of all, becoming friends, first and last.


Who am I? A former rock drummer and cable access TV producer, I was born and raised in

South Central Nebraska but lived in Boston for 27 years. I moved back to Nebraska in

2004 to finish my BS degree at UNK that started in the 1970’s but mostly to be closer

to my elderly Mom and Dad. I graduated in 2007 with a 3.5 GPA, which made my mother and

I proud. Since she passed away, I moved back to the Boston.


I got interested in cable access television to document life, my life, my friend’s

life, and strangers. The name of my show was called “Static Attic’s Found Object”.

Some of the life I have documented may seem insignificant but the the day-to-day

living of ordinary people are the back-story of history. Take a look at the

archaeological digs of Pompeii that I was lucky to see at the Boston’s Museum of Fine

Arts. It was a very eye-opening experience into the human condition reflecting the

remains of their last days on Earth. I was, also, fortunate to see Emperor Qin's

Terracotta Army from China, which was amazing, duplicating copies of his soldiers to be

buried with him. John Singer Sergeant’s exquisite portraits and portrayals of Victorian

society really moved me. The tiny detailed drawings of Rembrandt made me feel

humble. Mary Cassatt made me wonder why she painted mothers with children but never

married herself.


I have learned a lot about music in my lifetime and wanted to do something about

it. While back at school, I produced and DJ’d a radio show called “ the Lost 20th

Century Juke Box”. Searching my memory (a little help from Google), I produced shows

for listeners to discover the roots of popular music, not to mention that good ol'

Rock‘n’Roll. Sometimes, I still play drums and jam with friends but looking for other

opportunities to gig and be creative.


I’m not really into sports but after living in Boston for so many years, I’ve become a

Red Sox and Patriots fan.


The world may not be my oyster but the lower 48 states are still a broad horizon. I

have great friends all over the country and in times of trouble, I can count on them to

be there for me. Like I said, I have returned to the Boston area with

the blessing of my Dad and to stay with close friends who are my extended family.

I’m in a situation where I can make new friends who may become an important and

endearing part of my life. I am a one-woman man. I’m not a wealthy man but I am rich in

friends, family and life experiences. Come, enjoy with me.

Conversation over coffee or a drink...we'll just have to see where it takes us.