I know there are guys out there who defy the stereotype of gay men. I'm looking for someone who really does want to date and have someone to come home to every night and make a home for ourselves and grow old together. I know, I just scared away a bunch of you! But wait, it's gets even worse -- I'd like kids too. (Anyone left still reading this?) But don't worry, I would like to date for a while too and not jump into marriage immediately.

I am a fan of Thai and Mexican food so if you like that maybe we'll try a new restaurant when we meet. I do watch reality tv since I love game shows (anyone remember Press Your Luck? No whammies!) I do the Red Eye crossword puzzle every day. I own a condo on the north side of Chicago and I bake an amazing pumpkin cake.

Well, for my birthday every year for the past few years I try to do something a little fun and wild. Past/future ideas include flying a glider plane, taking a trapeze class, going on a hot air balloon ride and taking a glass blowing class. So I'm always up for something a little fun. I love Dave and Buster's or ESPN Zone. When it's cold out I'm happy ordering in pizza or Chinese and watching a scary movie.