I am a woman that perfers to be outside. I am active and have a variety of interests. Somehow I did not get the female shopping gene and like sports alot better than going shopping with women and having lunch. If I had it my way I would spend every day either on the water or the golf course. I love the smell of the earth and sea. I am at peace on the water and can get very excited about clear tropical waters and the excitement that it holds beneath the surface. I probably could not connect with a very city oriented man that is not athletic and healthy. I want a man that is connected with nature and respects all of the earth's creatures. I also would not be able to understand a man that hunts. Fishing is great but ambushing and shooting animals for the thrill breaks my heart. I fish but also release alot too.
I think your upbringing is very important to have in common. I have learned that opposites really do not attract for me, so I choose a man I have alot in interests in common. I love to try new activites and want a man I can learn from. To teach me things I may not have experience in. Literature, Art, Music, sports, food,beliefs,movies..anything I want to learn from you.
I feel I have a lot to offer a man in the ways that I can reciprocate in the teachings. I cook healthy seafood, fresh vegatables. I believe that it is very critical to eat healthy and practice a clean life style. I only eat meat on rare occasion and let my body tell me when it is necessary. I would love a man that likes to get in the kitchen with me and participates in the meal planning and selection. Please help clean up too.
I like to work out and must have a man that is muscular and works out with me. The couple that plays together stays together. Naturally have a life away from each other too! Have friends and spend time with them, a good balance. Balance isn't that what life is all about?
A good communicater is a must. I don't want to have to carry the conversation. I like a man that can speak on a variety of topics and experiences. Ideas of your own are very important. Creativity is also something I look for, in all facets of life including the bedroom. I am a very tactile person and thrive on the sense of touch. With out it I will wilt. I like a man that loves to touch and is not afraid of it. Please be a kisser and a full believer in lots of touching!! Really, though its 90% in the mind. If you are connecting and there is a genuine emotional connection then it will just happen.
I like my man to be tall. 6'2" is about right for me. I cannot be attracted to short men. Its a turn off for me. I want a muscular build, not too bulky more on the sinewy side. I am a skin lover!! Soft, velvety, smooth skin really turns me on...especially when its all over me. I have dark skin and usually gravitate towards a man with dark skin too. At least be able and wanting to be out in the sun doing activites with me. You don't have to bake your brains out to make me happy. I enjoy the energy and feeling of strength I derive from the sun, kinda like Samson and his hair only its my body and spirit gaining strength from the sun.
I like a man that reads. Its is always fun to sometimes have authors that we both like then discuss what we have read and what we gained from the book. Someone that is creative and or artistic that likes to create with his hands would be great. I think a man that can work with his hands is very sexy and is a turn on.
Please be a golfer. I think it is pretty important to me. It is a lifestyle that I grew up with and the ethics I find in people that play golf is very important to me. There is a gentile quality and refinement that I want in a man. Education is important. I like a open minded individual that is refined in his thinking or lifestyle. Animal and nature lovers need only apply please!!!!!!!!

Any thing that is out doors physical and healthy. I love the water. Fishing, surfing, water sking, kayacking, golf, painting, photogtaphy, bike riding, Horse back riding on the beach. Being with nature and seeing wildlife taking pictures. Going to the beach and riding bikes. Meeting at the gym for a work out is great too.
SCUBA diving is my favorite. Seeing active volcanos and going thru the tree canapy in Costa Rica would be cool. Hawaii is my next trip. I need a travel buddy. Someone that is active and will do things with me. A good natured man,with morals and convictions. Not looking for random dating and one night stands. I want it all and ultimately a husband. I want a man that will spend the time to get to know me and is a participater not a spectator. One that doesn't want to date a million women. A real man not a boy. Mature and wise that is rational. I want a man that is at the point in his life where he wants a future with a woman. Shows ownership of his feelings and emotions and not be closed.