I am down to earth and comfortable with who I am. I do not pretend to be something I'm not to impress others. I am not big on the party scene and rarely drink, but I still like to hang out and have a good time. I am shy when I first meet people, but I do eventually loosen up...really, I do! I have this philosophy where I treat everyone with respect, even people I don't like. Because every person that I have or will come in contact with, shape who I am, and I also believe that if I want to be respected I have to earn it. Trust is a huge thing with me. I trust everyone untill they give me a reason not to. As far as dating goes, I would like to meet someone who has similar values. Someone who thinks there is more to life than just material and superficial things...don't get me wrong though...I love my flat iron and clothes just as much as the next homo, but I certainly don't let those things define who I am. I'm just looking for someone I can enjoy spending time with and talk about anything and everything. And when we are 88, we will be sitting around in our depends and spoon feeding eachother bananas from a jar. Sorry if that last part scared you off...I don't blame you hehe

A first date is definatly not going to the movies...because that is not a good place to get to know eachother...plus I like to save it for the third date, then we can makeout in the corner! jk