I feel like I have to put a disclaimer regarding what you are about to read. In the message below you will find the following: wit, sarcasm, humor, and trash talking. You will not find; speling erers (:-p), badder grammar (:-p), or complete lies. If you are a laid back person with a good sense of humor then you may have already smiled by now; and you and I would probably get along ("complete lies"... As opposed to what?... lol).

I am not opposed to finding Mrs 'Best Kept Secret' on this site, but I'd really like to start with someone who makes me laugh; or better yet, laughs at my jokes :lol I consider myself an 'in the moment' kinda guy. It's not a science, but I try my best to live in the moment. I've been snorkeling in Cozumel, four-wheeling in Costa Rica, cliff jumping in Jamaica (well I didn't actually jump). I sang a duet called "Saturday Love" on stage with a famous R&B singer and I can't sing a lick. I snuck onto the field for a Florida v Tennessee football game and I didn't even have a ticket to the game. I've travelled to Las Vegas alone, got pick-pocketed, and lost my I.D. on the first day of a five-day trip, and still had one of the greatest times of my life. I got suspended for three days during my senior year in high school for 'inciting a riot', but I was a model student. Around people the I feel most comfortable I'm allowed to joke around, be silly, and have fun. That's me. Stuffiness and me don't get along that well. That means, aside from career goals, being a chronic optimist, spiritually sound, and work/life balance, I try not to take much seriously.

I am very open-minded (translation: I have friends of all nationalities).

I'm somethin' like Barack. (translation: I grew up with the liberals and went to school with the conservatives).

5/3/2009--

I decided to update my profile a bit since finishing grad school in April. As of May 1st I am back in South Florida and I'm loving it!! I can't remember why I even left. I've been back for two days and I've been on the beach each day. And while I enjoy hanging out at the beach and all, it certainly would be better if I had someone special to share that with.


Things I like:


Dolphins
Gators
Heat
Mom (she's much nicer post 55)
passion
fashion
action
spontaneity
Stevie Wonder
optimists
wit
sarcasm
contentment
peace
love (I like love. That's sounds funny)
kissing that special someone
Bad Girls (the tv show. It's hilarious)
intellectual conversations
being in the know
Acting like I don't know, but really knowing
uh, honesty
traveling
reality shows (Embarrassing, I know)
pandora.com
acid jazz
lounges that require a dress code
Dave Chappelle
not wearing a shirt
attention from the right person
Sade
Dwele
Maxwell
Kanye
The Roots
Jill Scott
80's
Pop
a woman who smells good
nice teeth
South Beach


Things I don't like:

negativity
bad pictures
sour pusses
pessimists
other peoples bad body odor
regrets
oatmeal
tight underwear


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Whatever we do, it would have to be fun. It should be a date that lends itself to good light-hearted conversation, maybe even some friendly competition. With that in mind I can think of several options.....

(1) I could beat you at any leisure sport of your choice (darts, pool, bowling.....badminton.......horseshoes......jacks), Then....

(2) I could let you win one in an effort to build your confidence... Then...

(3) We could discuss how you really don't believe that I let you win.... Then....

(4) We should do something active like go to a dinner theater, comedy show, or concert.

Whatever it is, we should keep it really light....... And, I promise to have you home by 5am :lol