When I see a beautiful mountain peak I want to climb it. Not to conquer it but to experience it. I want to be a visceral part of the scene. I thrive on active adventures, whether hiking or climbing , sailing or kayaking, running or biking. Don't get me wrong. I am not an adrenaline junkie or one-dimensional exercise geek (although exercise is important). To me, a good Saturday might be a bike ride along the coast trail, followed by scones and coffee. Later we can pour a glass of wine while we prepare an excellent dinner. Whether we go dancing or watch a movie depends on the mood. Maybe we'll pour over guidebooks for our next trip while cuddling on the couch. A multi-day kayak adventure in Prince William Sound Alaska, or a bike trip through the South African wine country??

I am a bit of a dreamer. Perhaps my favorite quote is by Henry David Thoreau, (paraphrased) "Fret not that your dreams be but castles in the air, for that is where they should be. You have now but to build the foundations beneath them". Are you a dreamer? More importantly are you a "do-er". I am looking for someone fit, active, and adventurous who has DONE things like I describe. Someone who can introduce me to new activities and adventures.

Lest I sound too idealistic, you should know that I am a hard working responsible professional, but one who wants to work to live- not live to work at his point in my life. I have spent much of my life caring for others, and still do. I was married more than 20 years and have 2 wonderful grown daughters. The three of us backpack and kayak when we can. Now all I need is a life partner to share the adventure with.