12/3/09
Hi. As of two weeks ago I'm no longer looking. I'm with a girl that I did happen to meet on here. Thanks POF. Never thought I'd be successful through the internet after some of the lunatics I met on here but I did. So to anyone who sees this shit, goodluck to you.

Music and weightlifting are the two things that currently rule my life. I like to make jokes whenever appropriate, which is somehow most of the time. Other than that I love playing instruments. To me, music is the ultimate form of expression regardless of taste. It's the audio version of body language. Sometimes the deepest emotions in someone cannot be spoken out, but miraculously are made into song.

I've been playing drums since I was 5 and I got my first guitar when I was twelve. I won't pretend I'm great on either one but others think I am and they call me crazy for thinking I'm not that good. But hey you listen and make your own decision. I actually plan on getting a webcam soon and posting some of my stuff online and getting people's opinions. If you want to hear some of the stuff I've done let me know and I will give you some links.

I used to DJ and engineer for my college radio station. I'll never forget the things I learned about myself while there. I was the host of perhaps the best d*mn metal show in all of college radio. I even made a little money engineering live broadcasts of Staten Island Yankee games one summer. I lost my summer for sure that year but the paychecks were pretty cool!

I'm not the type that hangs around large crowds. I feel I get lost in them pretty easily and it annoys me. I also hate having to yell because my hearing isn't great...blame the drums. I like really small groups, one on one, or nothing at all. I can't be around a lot of people. I'm not a bar person and while I do drink I decided a while back that the only times I'll go to a bar is when it's to meet someone I know for a special occasion.

As far as the type of women I want to meet...I want to meet someone who's kind of like me although I will make exceptions. I tend to get affectionate with people I like and I'd definitely like to meet someone who's like that too. No this does not mean I'm looking for sex on the first date so not to worry, for I am a gentleman at heart. I think it'd be cool if you like guys with long hair(because for one thing I'm not getting rid of my hair anytime soon).

10/2/09 - New Request: I've met a quite a few people here in the 10 months I've had an account on POF. The problem for me has always been that the people I meet all happen to live in Jersey, especially the ones who write me first, and quite a few of them lived way too far. So what I'm asking of you is to think of this if you're going to write me: Am I too far? Are you too far(and I mean borderlining PA somehow)? And if you and I did meet and it worked out would you be willing to make tohe trip over to me every once in a while? Hey it's only fair. I hope it's not too much to ask. Thank you and good luck.

On a really nice night, like in the spring or summer, I'd like to take walks in parks or beaches and just talk. I've had fun with that in the past. Otherwise I'd probably like to just go to a coffee house or someplace small where we could just talk. Yeah I like that.