I don't like to be around people who are uptight. I don't have time for a "chat only", online relationship. I also don't want a high maintenance man. I just don't need a man who spends more time choosing product for his hair than with me. Either it adds to my life or it's just not worth it at this point. I'll pick out the right hair product for you and you'll look fine, trust me.

I don't do drugs, or enable people with addictions.

However, I like the nightlife, I like to boogie. I know it's only rock and roll... but I like it. And you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need. I've also enjoyed living overseas, I understand several dialects of broken English, and I have a pretty good ability to see through bullshit. However, I love people who are flawed, and can't stand people who think they are perfect.

I like to get to know new people, and I'm mainly here for the forums, which are like my mental junkfood I read between all the serious stuff I have to read.

I'm one of those "busy" people... which translates into... my life is pretty full, I'm happy with it, and I'm not trying too hard. THank you POF, for helping me realize this. I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get.

Coffee and conversation are good. I don't have time to spend an evening with someone I barely know, unless it's at a U of A basketball game or theatre.

I'm definately not running a ploy to get free meals. I'm happy to meet at a restaurant and pay for myself, but I definately don't have room in my life to financially support someone else.