I'm a 53 year old on paper only as I'm told that I don't look or act my age. I'm told that I have a servants heart as I go out of my way to help others and always put the needs of others before my own. I tend to be romantic for a guy and I like honest communication about anything as integrity means a lot to me. An optimistic attitude is part of my make-up and I have no interest in pessimistic worry warts. I'm like a sponge with information and have a variety of interests. My inquisitiveness does drive some people crazy as I love to learn about almost anything. I act like a kid at times and it gets the better of me on occasion. I rarely spend time on any spectator sports as I'd rather be doing than watching. I like to ski, hike, bowl, various water sports, and have enjoyed flying, golf and softball. Good conversation with the right person is a turn on. I'm also content just watching a good movie or reading.

I love sweetness in a woman and appreciate intelligence. A good sense of humor is mandatory. I'm looking for someone who can be honest, playful yet serious, open-minded and with a healthy balance of wanting my company and having her own interests and friends. She must be happy and secure with herself. As I belive that true intimacy can't be found without good communication, I'm not interested in anyone who either keeps things bottled up or is overly critical. A woman that shares my view that the Bible is God's instruction book for life would be ideal. Someone that likes to receive and show affection would be most welcome. The ability to be passionate about the good stuff in life including our relationship is a plus. Similar interests are great but different ones can be fun to explore together. I am looking for a best friend with a chance of turning into a lover. I'm probably asking for too much!

I will not respond to you ladies that don't post photos or those under 35. Also, please be real about your physique. Thank you!

A quiet place to talk or walk, learn about each other and see if there's any chemistry.