So here is where I have to sell myself? I am putting myself on the market again. Not easy to do when you're not used to it. I am not looking for a one night stand, I am here for a longlasting relationship and I believe we should start out as friends and get to know each other, so if you are still married please keep looking for another guy. there are plenty guys willing to satisfy your needs.
I grew up in Belgium, having moved here 15 years ago. I can not compare my education level to yours. I did take a couple of classes in Fullerton college. I am currently interested in psychology, engineering and interpersonal relationships. Maybe I'll take some more classes when i have more time. My data analyst/engineering job is steady and seems to be recesion proof. I have been working there for about 12 years now. I am probably going to stay there forever if this economy allows it. My job is in Orange County, so I do the commute to work on a daily basis. I used to live in Northern Orange County and I still love it there. When I make a decision in life I tend to stick with it I am not afraid to make a long-lasting commitment. I keep the same job, car and the same clothes forever (LoL); some might think that this is boring and I need some more spice in my life. But believe me these are not the parts that need to be spiced up. There is enough excitement in the rest of my life, so I can commit to the more important decisions.
I have been single for almost 4 years now. I was married before and sadly enough it did not last. Even though we had a great time together sometimes you have to walk away from a relationship, you can not change the other person. So for all you girls out there that are looking for games and not for the real thing please don't contact me, I have no time for your drama.
I like to be outside the house, watching TV and drinking beers is just not my cup of tea. I am not much of a couch potato.
I have been a bartender at wedding receptions for many years, I used to do this as a second job. Even though I was a bartender I rarely drink alcohol. I also have some cooking skills (meaning a degree).
So for all you culinary arts girls out there, I graduated from one of the high end restaurant schools in Europe (Instituut voor voeding - Ter groene poorte in Brugge) and I have worked in some of the finest establishments in France (www.vallondevalrugues.com) and Belgium (hotel restaurant de Wielingen and Auberge de fonteyne).
I speak four languages and love to use them in order to not forget them (English, Dutch, French and German).
I like to spend my time going on weekend road trips or even a full day visiting the Fair. Strolling on the beach passing by bakeries and small shops can be a great time with you.
I am a daddy, my daughter is 5 years old and I see her every other weekend. I am not asking you to be a mommy, she has an awesome mom already. I don't want you to be involved in my daughter's life. she gets attached to easily and the emotions run too high. I see my daughter only 2 out of 14 days so there is plenty time for you.
I love to talk to people so if you are up for talking to me, I won't turn you down.
Obviously my writing skills need to be improved on but I am definitely working on that.

Starbucks sounds good. and when the chemistry is there, we can quicly move on to a dinner date. If you are up for it lets have a second date in the kitchen, making a fantastic dish together and then enjoying our efforts, this gives us a great time for goofing off.