My husband and I are looking for a nice, fun, pretty woman with a good personality, that maybe interested in having a good time. Or just maybe friends. We go out occasionally. But we still have fun without all the partying. I have been intimate with another women but still very curious,this would also fulfill my husbands desire. At any rate, we can still be friends without the intimacy.

A first date????? We are very spontaneous. People getting together and hanging out or going to have dinner, drinks, or dancing, don't have to be labeled a "date". What matters is that when people meet, become friends, as long as every one had fun and a great time, enjoying every bodies' company, then you have accomplished something. To me, learn one's likes and dislikes, put your heads together and make the best of an evening. Be spontaneous, that's a first date.