Hey there...i am a very positive person generally speaking but starting off with, "i have not had good luck on this site"...well,lol, probably isnt the best line i could use but i also believe in honesty.Im not looking to rush into anything but friends first, unless of course the chemistry is overwhelming..lol. I am 47 years old, educated (post secondary education) work in the health field and have for 14 years, have 2 daughters age 13 and 17, dont smoke, drink socially..Important traits in a partner for me are emotional stability, someone that is not desperate,independance, intelligence and passion..I also have to add here that i work out, look after myself and at the risk of sounding shallow (which i am not), need to feel there is chemistry between us because i believe thats where it all starts..In actuality i really dislike doing this..lol..its like applying for a chance to experience what its like to have your..ego or self "tested". I have come to believe in the last year or so, that the power of our thoughts determine in great part our reality. I believe that we draw unto ourselves the image we have in our mind.....compassion, love, understanding, passion and the joy of life ...I believe everything happens for a reason in this universe and that what we think about, brings about..if this sounds interesting to you drop me a line...........peace.

P.S. Yeah the pic of the joker is me, with 2 of my friends on halloween...lol
P.S.S. To C.J. "so i have to do what your doing. Your much stronger than i thought you would be."

Im easy going.. so i would be happy to accomodate whatever the person im with would like to do...except perhaps coffee at Tim Horton's....;)