"water seeks it's own level"...at least that's what my grandmother always told me.

I read the following just the other day. Tell me what you think.

"...Love can be likened to the creation of a work of art in that it requires imagination, total concentration, the combining of all aspects of human personality, self sacrafice on the part of the artist, and absolute freedom. But most of all, as with all artistic creation, love requires action that is non-routine activity and behavior, as well as, constant attention to ones partner's intrinsic nature, an effort To comprehend his or her individuality and respect it. And last but not least, it needs tolerance. the awareness that one must not impose one's outlook or ideals on one's companion or stand in the way of the other's happiness"

- Zygmund bauman

The profundity of the this passage struck a deep, resonant chord with me. After being married for 22 bittersweet years, i can attest to the truth conveyed in these words.

Maybe i'm asking for too much, but i would really like to find a woman who is equal parts cerebral,sensual, and spiritual....or at least trying to attain a balance of the 3... a solid work in progress would be optimal.


MY BRIEF BIO:

Intellectual, passionate, creative, curious, focused, spiritual, mentally and physically clean, well read, with a million interests, avocations and pursuits


complex?....yes


self -involved and narcisisstic?....no


any questions?...i hope so

UPDATE: I AM 47 YEARS OLD...THE SYSTEM WONT LET ME CHANGE MY AGE.

my ideal first date would definately involve some live jazz in a small intimate setting. i know of a great little italian restaurant that features live music on the week ends and serves up excellent food.... just sitting and talking, getting to know each other over a good meal, a few drinks with some great music as a soundtrack for the evening is my idea of a good time.....later we can drive up the coast and watch the moon light dance on the water while some oldies serenade us from the alpine in my
dashboard...delphonics...temprees...harold melvin and the bluenotes....barry white... isley brothers...Earth, wind and fire... slow dance under the stars as the waves crash in the background.