5'11 simple man with a simple approach to life.
My philosophy in life "It is better to have piece of mind rather than a piece of P***Y".

Sex i can get when i cant get a glass of water.What else do you have to offer?

Just because we have sex does that now mean we are betrothed to one another?

Alway`s weigh the outcome of your actions before acting and decide if it is worth it.

Arguments: I don`t take part in you will have to do it alone.

If you have to yell to be heard find another listener.

Ladies you don`t have to yell to be heard most brothas can hear you whisper if you say it the right way.

Ladies tell a man what it is you truly expect from him and don`t let him lose sight of that if you truly want to be happy, there`s the day before and the day after.

How can a man make you happy if you yourself don`t know that which makes you happy.

Keeping it real:Being able to tell someone that you are involved,married or otherwise and letting the other individual decide whether or not they want to be #2.Simply put,tell the truth.


Jealousy: Acknowledge it, won`t be consumed by it.Do your part in the relationship if thats not enough to keep your mate then it`s time for a change anyway.

Ladies,particularly my sistas what is the harm in speaking? Just because a man says hi doesn`t mean he wants you to have his children.

Ladies,

Do you believe: That a true orgasm starts in the mind and is then transfered to the body.

Do you believe: That cuddling can at times be better than sex.

Do you believe: That massaging a mans mind is the true path to his heart rather than his stomach.

Do you believe: That men are incapable of reading your mind and therefor have to be told on occasion how to make you happy.

To all the Gold Diggers:
If you: cannot pay your rent then move.

If you: cannot pay your car note buy a cheaper car.

If you: do not believe in GOD you will never be able to afford life.

Regardless you can still be my friend.

Life is too short to be unhappy.Get your happy on.
Don't know how or what? Anything or anyone that puts a smile on your hearts face.
Be real to yourself and have the strength to recognize who and in some cases what you are.
Anyone can say they love you,show me that you do.

The name Justballn is derived from my softball team n the fact that I'm a softball junkie.

My ideal woman of preference is someone who is not afraid of a swimsuit as i love to swim and go to the beach.
I like strong independent women.A woman that knows how to laugh without being goofy and annoying aka (dumb blonde syndrom). I absolutely adore a woman of intellect that can adapt to any situation.A woman that can play cards,dominoes and talk sh*tand still present herself as a lady when its all said and done.While cards and dominoes are not a prerequisite she need only be confident in whatever she does. A woman who can tell me no and mean it,a woman who can make decisions on where to eat and or go for a vacation spot.A spontaneous woman full of life and a zest for fun.A woman that will call me up and tell me to meet her at a designated location for dinner or a romantic romp for lunch or something like that,essentially a woman that knows what she wants and isnt afraid to get after it and doesnt care what other people think and yet tender and soft like a crescent :).In the end only her thoughts and mine are what count.Real ladies, "come get you some".We all know that opposites attract and being that i am a big man myself therefore a big woman wont do,no offense to all the BBW's but it's a preference.I do like thick though but nicely shapely thick.

As for those of you looking for long term relationships i say unto you good luck as for me i pour everything into my relationships from day one and if lasts one day or one lifetime i can say i gave it my all and not worry about what i didnt do or couldve done to make things last longer.In short time is not promised to us therefore i say unto you,make the best of what you are presented with.The world does not end on failed relationships for relationships are like the phoenix bird in which some die only to have a new one reborn.Get your happy on i know i will.

I myself am a hopeless romantic therefore in addition to her confidence she must be willing to allow me to be very affectionate and as i stated before i love to hug and hold my woman close to me.I like trying to out do myself each year for her birthday and valentines day with knew and inventive ways to show her how much i care.Travel with me,walk with me,be my right arm and if i stumble catch me before i fall(not responsible for injuries and or pulled muscles lolololol) metaphorically speaking that is.

Crown on the rocks for me and whatever shes drinking.Be a good listener and pay attention to her everything.