| | I initially came to this site with no expectations or intents. I love to people watch, and this site was another outlet I could use at home to do just that. I don't have this profile here to impress you, or hook you. It is here so I can say a little bit about me.
I am sarcastic, and a bit of a smart ass at times. I am not scared to ask (or answer) questions that most people wont ask because they may feel its inappropriate, too personal, or whatever. Even so, I am always cautious and respectful of other peoples feelings. I beleive this is an important attribute too few people have. Most seem too quick to ignore the fact that each person has their own set of feelings and emotions. I believe every person or situation needs to be assesed on a case-by-case basis
I like to surround myself with individuals who are positive and uplifting. I hate drama and pessismistic attitudes...some people get so wrapped up in how they were treated unfairly, how something didn't go their way, or they actually had to get up off their ass and do something for themselves that they end up wasting their lives away complaining. This is not to say people can't have a bad day. It just shouldn't be a way of life.I would rather spend my time enjoying the moment, than complaining about a past I can't change, a present I don't have, or a future I won't create. When things go wrong...deal with it and move on.
I take my carrer and family responsibilities seriously, but I believe that everyone needs a break sometimes. Just time to let loose and have fun. These times are part of what makes life enjoyable, but they are not really fulfilling by themselves. For me, I need a sense of accomplishment, or a sense of purpose to feel that. Work hard, play hard. Wash, rinse, repeat...
When I am not working or taking care of my children, I have hobbies and interests like most people. I like to work with my hands, and this shows in what I like to do in my off time. Some of what I do is a bit unusual, so I wont post it here, but its certainly not illegal or immoral. I spend a good bit of my free time cycling or working out. I am not trying to become a body builder or anything extreme, I just try to live a generally healty lifestyle. (in other words, yes, I cheat on that)
I love to dance, but never felt I was very good at it. I would like to take lessons some day. There are many 'active' outdoor things I want to try, and things I enjoy doing, but it seems there is never an oppertunity or person to do this with. I would like to go hiking or rock climbing, but thats just not realistic in flat Texas. I also want to sky dive someday.
I belive in open and honest communication. I despise responses to texts or emails that say "im fine"..."not bad"...or other closed responses. I can have a better conversation with my cat than I can with people like that.
My music interest varies...here lately I have been listening to a lot of Dashboard Confessional, Deathcab, The Cure, and 12 Stones.
I am honestly not in a position to dive into a serious relationship, but I would like to find someone I can share my day with, gossip with, and basically form some type of intellectual connection with...someone open to talks, texts, or whatever.
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