hi im john im just your average joe slightly thick but working on that...lol all of my friends say im too nice of a guy allways puting others before me,i dont associate with drug users or people who drink excessively and i dont like drama or liars because im brutally honest 100% of the time...i dont like shallow people who look way past inner beauty only to settle for a nice appearance so there friends will approve or be jelouse...thats just childish and stupid way of stereo typing people...take me for instance i myself dont think im very attractive just average if you want a hunk of a man im sure you will find him out there..the world is full of them but be warned because in my brief 37 years of life i have noticed one thing there are a lot of very pretty people in this world who are very ugly inside....enough of this im going to have a mygrain lol...i know im beating a dead horse here ...to sum it all up let me lay it out for you from the heart im wanting some one whe knows how to be loved and can give love and devotion as i can in return some one who is tired of games that have been played on them at there expense i want to be that man everyone said did no longer exist but only in a world where love is real and lasting with no lies and deceit...as you may already have noticed im old fashioned with stern values on love, i want to hold hands open doors lend my jacket give a kiss for no reason at all but to just say ....I LOVE YOU now and forever, i want to go get ice cream at 2 am and share it with a smile write little love notes and hide them in places where you would frequent...im dreaming that my ideal match would except me for me as i would in return my ideal match would have too like cuddling getting cozy on the sofa watching a good movie... im pretty much a home body dont get me wrong though i every now and then like to go out when i say out i mean bowling mini golfing playing penny slots catch a movie etc... im totally not for the bar scene they are just a meat market honestly who ever really finds true love in a place where people are regulars there whole lives revolve around being drunk and stupid if that is your game keep playing it there...lol if you want a nice guy who is home where he should be im your man, i can go on and on here you know the song and dance but if you really would like to get to know me just write me back ok ask me any thing ok...

a nice dinner for two then mabye go to a park and sit and talk to get to know one another better or just take a stroll and talk about life etc.