I love funny people that are smart and witty and want to laugh. The beach is my second home. Music is a must! I probably always have music on. I am very honest and blunt and to the point. No guessing games here. I know who I am and what I want and in what direction I'm willing to bend and how far for the right person. I have a 2 1/2yr old that is the center of my world and will be most likely until he goes off to college. I work and go to school. I live with my son and our kitty, Mid-night. I am just looking for someone that has the same interest as me. I was with someone for 14 years and he passed away almost 4 yrs ago. I miss having fun and laughing the way we did. We loved each other very much and I just want to feel like that again.

I would probably wanna go to the beach or go fishing or something like that. Something real you can do to sit and BS with the person and get to know them. Usually you can tell within a short time of talking with someone if you're gonna get along with'em or not. Going to the movies is not a good idea for a first date because you do not talk in the movies you just sit and watch a movie. You want to do something with that person to know if the person is someone you like the way they are and wouldn't want to change. Life is too short to wait or to want someone to change. People are who they are. Life is what it is and thats all. Life is a whole bunch of experiences waiting to happen. I don't want to change anyone, I want to change my experiences and have fun doing that with an interesting someone that is as into life as I am.