Well I am going to update my profile as of Friday 11-20-2009;

I have been on this site pretty much since the beginning of the year. I have converse and met some interesting women during my tenure on this site. I have to say that everyone of them has actually been pretty cool and I hope that they have felt the same about me for as I have tried to be that way towards them...and that is just being who I am a gentleman. What has particularly amazed and surprised me is this one classy lady that I will categorized as special and she will know who exactly she is. Up until this point I really did not know what type of woman that I would truly like to date or maybe eventually go into a LTR, for I have more or less have been with women that has not compliment me as who I am. I have found that this special has truly set a bench mark for what I am looking for in a woman. One would would might say " If you have found her, then why would you stay on this site?" Well you know that old saying " You look at a glass and it appears half full...But I say then you want to fill it to its maximum capacity...but with what you want in it. In other words I just want to make sure I do have it filled with what I want. So with that said here is a list of qualities that MY friend has and I don't want you to match her..I want you to exceed her. IF YOU CAN!!!... If no one can then it is time for me to trash this profile....

I TOOK THE LIST AWAY, because it did have to many qualities...and you can never expect the same out another person. So I will just see what happens from here.

As for me in addition....don't email me if you are older than me, I will not respond. Though I am 50, and in fgood physical and healthy condition...I do not look, act and feel that way...so do not try to talk to me in that way or suggest in some form or manner that I am going through a mid life crisis....far from it. If you can't keep up in the race..don't even come to the starting gate...lol. and as for the qualities that MY..my special friend has, I know she is laughing at this in my profile for she knows that no one will be able to exceed who she is. Hmmmm, pretty**** statement would not you say? Just a FYI and this is crazy..but it was much fun, we did 4 dates in one week because we both work intensely and the time permitted us to do so to get them out of the way. You have to be that spontaneous do something like that!!!. We went to Las Vegas 11/2009 for a date to see R. Kelly in concert and she has locked in a 3 day trip to Las Vegas 01/2009 whereas I already had a setup trip there for myself, but I brought an extra ticket for someone special to go with me, had no ideal who it would be...now that is how spontaneous I am....lol!!! It all about living now, for tomorrow is not promised to you. Don't hate...just jump in and participate!!!

Now I have the above listed same qualities so that is pretty much me as well plus a few others that was found out about me by her... all good I might add. so below is what has been in my profile and I will leave it in with a couple of changes, for I do plan at some point in deleting this profile.

I am just a simple type of guy and like doing almost anything if its interesting. Once you get to know me you find that I am actually one of those sincere nice guys. I have a stable job so I am not one of those guys that if I ask you out on a date..that I will ask you to pay half. I will have you pay 25% and that includes the sales tax and tip to the server...lol I will tell you right off, if you don't like to laugh or have fun then don't bother. I have been known to act stoopid!!! to get a laugh. if you want to know more just ask. I answer most emails whether I think you are interesting or not....but I my not answer if you don't meet my criteria

Well on the first date I would first try to defer to what you would want to do,but if you want me to pick, Then I would ?????????