I just recently read a book that is transforming my life. Its a guide to self freedom called "The Four Agreements". It really opened my eyes to becoming a better person. The foundation is based on 4 agreements which are:
1. Be impecable with your word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
2. Dont take anything personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you wont be the vitim of needless suffering.
3. Never make assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Commuunicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
4. Always try your best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment, it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.
Ive learned to apply these agreements to my every day life and I have never felt better about myself. Im a down to earth guy who is looking for the same traits in a lady. I enjoy all types of sports, the outdoors and music, without music life would seem boring. I live my life staying positive, one day at a time, and learn from my mistakes. Im real big on honesty and loyalty.

Whatever makes her comfortable!