I am a very easy going person. I'm not high maintenance at all. I love showing affection, that's my main love language. Holding hands, snuggling on the couch, hugging, kissing are all things that I like to do a lot of. I have been described as romantic and a gentlemen. I like to hold open doors for ladies, I like to pay when we go on dates. I like to buy cards and flowers for no reason at all except to show you that I'm thinking of you.

I will mention that I do still live with family. My mom, grandma and I moved out together in 04 from CA and my grandmother has been having some health issues. I live with them both and help my mom take care of my grandmother. So if thats a turn off and bothers you, sorry but my family is important to me and comes first.

I am opinionated, but I like someone that can think for themselves. Along with easy going I like someone to make decisions every once and a while and not leave it all to me. I want someone who knows how to be independent. I also want someone who knows what they want and doesn't lead someone on. No one likes being lead down one road only to find out that isn't the road they meant to go down.

My match needs to be my best friend and more. Someone I can tell anything to, can talk to when I feel no one will listen and it needs to be the same way in return. I don’t expect that to happen on day one, but that’s what I am looking for in the long run. I'm looking for more than a lover, I'm looking for a best friend to be my lover.


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Hmm for the first date it really depends on the communication before hand. If we hit it off well maybe we meet for dinner and some drinks. If we haven't chatted much then maybe we just meet up for drinks and go from there.

The dinner and drinks thing can get old as well, so bowling, playing pool, riding go karts, heading to a driving range or playing putt putt are all fun things for a first date.