Me--->I consider myself truly genuine, sincere, loyal and honest to a fault. I work hard and play hard. Yes means yes, no means no (no guesswork here!). I can even throw a football in high heels!
I love to get dressed up and go out, but on a dime, could also watch Sunday football in bed with a cup of Starbucks. I take care of myself physically, which leads to my mental happiness. I am incredibly independent...I live alone and am completely complacent with being by myself. I'm not looking for someone to complete my life, but I am at the point to where I am looking for a man to share a really exciting, sexual, fun and fulfilling life with me on a long term, monogamous basis.

You-->a career established professional, who knows himself and what he wants in a woman. He should be able to make me laugh effortlessly; not being overly goofy. He has to have a (social/work) life of his own, almost as busy as mine, so we can both understand, respect and enjoy time off with each other. Above all, he must be dependable, positive, love his family, loves animals, compromising, social, clean, have a good heart towards people, and manners.

Please DO NOT WRITE if you:
- do not have time to nurture a new relationship
- are on this dating website just looking for female attention and really have no intention on developing a relationship
- not yet ready for a some kind of a committed relationship or have any other possible personal/financial/mental incapabilities preventing you from functioning in an adult relationship. (aka. commitment phobic)--> Let's just say, I'm not dating for sport anymore.
- (I can't believe that I have to say this, but) I am not on this site looking for sex. If you're expecting to take me out on one date and expect to get laid, please move on to the next profile.--> I'm not having sex for sport anymore either.
- are lying about your age, height, weight or any other standard info on your profile that cannot be changed.--> Rounding to the nearest quarter inch is one thing. Claiming you're 6' and you're my height or saying you're 33 when you're really 43 is LYING, buddy. If they're just "numbers," you'd probably be pretty pissed if I was 40lbs off on my weight.
- have no intention of going beyond emailing/texting--> In the end, I'm a real person. ACTIONS speak louder than words.
- have poor grammar/spelling/manners--> Come on, I expect you to know the difference between their, there and they're. Those little squiggly red lines under words are not there for decoration! Take heed. If life could only be so obvious.
- misconstrue the need for a girlfriend with your actual need for a therapist.
- feel the need to discuss your ex-girlfriend baggage and/or personal/credit issues during our first phone call/date--> Use some discretion, man! If you're still talking about shit-bombing your ex's front door or how you are still suffering from your latest bankruptcy, it would appear to me that you have some other major issues that should be taken care of before I'd want to become a part of that.

Now, don't get all bent out of shape about what I'm looking for. Online dating is tricky AND risky by taking people's word on a simple profile. Men have their "types" too and I don't think I should be faulted for asking for the things I like in a man. No biggie!!! I just know what I like and what I want. Not to mention, I've been through enough of these dating scenarios to hopefully prevent wasting any more time on men with other agendas.

I make decisions all day for a living, so I'm very interested in a man that is willing to take charge, but consider my likenesses in the process! Mentally stimulating conversation is what is mandatory, in addition to genuine laughter. I consider myself pretty traditional and believe in chivalry so please note I will not sleep with you on the first date, or second for that matter, so don't even ask or assume. I'd like to take the time to really get to know someone and hopefully find some undeniable chemistry along the way. I don't really care WHERE this all happens, just as long as the man is being his true self and isn't just trying to get in my pants.