Hello, nice of you to look at my profile and for the record I'm looking for a mix of friends, talking, dating and Long term, POF.com only lets you choose one lol, and if things were to go south and we were to stop dating, there would be nothing wrong with having you as a friend, for I do also value friendship as well. I also hope that you feel interested to email me or email me back whatever the case. Just came back to using Plenty of fish after a while so you can say this is an update to my profile lol. Well about me I'm 23 years old, 6.2, mixed African American with some Caucasian as well. I lived in not only the US but England some years ago, so if you meet me and you hear me say the British slang words Like, Bollocks, Bloke, w*****, wanking, mate, may I bum a fag and others blame BBC America lol. As you will see I can be a bit of a comedian and jest, or attempt to at the very least.

By the way if you are in a foreign country and I do email you its because I wish to get to know you for not only and I'm I also interested in meeting females from a different country or at least talking and emailing them, I may visit there soon depending, for I'm wanting to travel some, especially back to Europe.

I go to college for Information Technology, and can speak some Spanish, and a very little of German, like the basic greetings. and work at ODU and Also a military reservist, and though still in college I have been getting offers for higher paying jobs due to me being involved as a reservist in the military, and my experience, like in Law enforcement, and others. However you can say I'm taking my time to finish up school for my degree in Information Technology, which I do like computers and being a computer nerd, which is my goal to be in a large computer company or business like my dad who has his masters in the field I'm in. I love doing many things like going out, eating at nice places, Having intelligent conversations with people, discussing some history maybe. I also like to look at the stars, watching a nice movie, and anything really, I'm very open minded, plus I do game some on my free time and to work with computers as well, I like to play all kinds of games, especially guitar hero 3 which right now I'm playing at hard. I listen to all kinds of music, I like a lot of rock like bands like 3 doors down, finger 11, with old school stuff, also like listening to some Hip Hop, Jazz, R&B music, which I do listen to Sade and her music and Anita Baker, my favs, and Techno/ Dance music. Other than that, friends would say I'm easygoing, fun and optimistic about thing and having good intellect as well.

My tender side-

I do in a certain way consider myself to be unique, I really do not fit any stereotypes, not really the stereotype male, for its just not me, I treat people as they are if not more. Like I said, I'm looking for someone either friends or that someone I'm looking for, in which it is not much, a strong woman who is driven plus knows what she wants in life and I can understand, confide in, have fun with and be with, basically my partner, my equal I'm searching for. Plus not really caring about your current situation, dont really care if you stay with family or you having a hard time in college or whatever, I will not judge, I'll look at every situation accordingly the only thing I will ask is that you do not try to use me at all.

My serious side-

I absolutely do not play any games with people, I will be upfront with you as long as you will be upfront with me, and I can sense when you about to BS so if that's you and you have no courage to say the truth or a backbone do not hit me up whatsoever, or email me back, had enough of that and I have heard the excuses and will not hear it ever again, its crap and disrespectful, and I'm getting so sick of it, so NO MINDGAMES, no more of it. Just the truth, nothing but the truth so help you god.

I know people are not perfect, and I'm not looking for a female that's 100% perfect, we are all members of the human race, and as humans we are all flawed to an extent. I had my flaws in the past but I have apologized for them a long ago, and make no absolutely excuses for them. I have wronged some people in the past and I have since then been trying to be a better person, and a better human/man.

I have Aim which is airrforc2 and yahoo IM which is dbrown1986, and my blackberry IM pin # is 309e428e

Well FYI first off I'm wishing to start of as friends first for a little bit, then slowly move to more dating, no sense to rush, and when I commit to someone I like to commit 100%.-D

Well I'm open to all idea's, it is never good to just think of one kinda date, cause you never know, you have to remain flexible. Anyways my ideal date would for both of us to do a starter lunch date somewhere or at a coffee store like Starbuck's and if things click after a couple times meeting and going out I would then want to go out to a nice place to dine at night while the moon and the stars are in the sky, which hopefully they would be bright lol, and have dinner maybe outside and wine as well as while having a good conversation about topics.