OK here I go MEN...
( WILL MEN EVER SAY WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR)
I am a single mother of 3 wonderful and beautiful children..they are a handful ,but I know that I am blessed because of them. Honestly they keep me grounded... I enjoy smiling and laughing and always try to stay positive about things although I do have my moments. I just moved back up from NV.Great timming huh with MN great snowy days and nights ... So I thought I'd try out this on line dating thing and see how it goes. I love Basketball, football (GB FAN), reading,spending time with family and friends, watching movies(in or out). I am laid back and I am pretty much open minded .( I like to try anything (almost anything) once.
:UPDATE:
the wrong guys are IM(ing) me so I decided to add what kind of "MEN" I am into
1) taller then me (i am 5'8)
2) older then 30
3) has goals
4) not looking to just hook up (SEX)
5) Is ok with the fact that I have children
6) Is ready to settle down himself after getting to know me and all goes well
7) open minded willing to try new things and teach me new things.
8) He is able to express (feelings and what he's thinking) himself without any fear of what others will think. As well as state his own opinion
9) someone that likes to have funand do things( if ur the kinda of guy that likes to just sit home) sorry I don't think we'll work
10) Has to be SEXUAL,(seeing I am very sexual with the prson I am seeing... it's just better when u care about the other person) I am not looking for a 1nightstand or a F**K Buddy.
PLEASE DON"T TAKE THIS LIST PERSONAL!!!!!I know what I want and what I am looking for and there isn't anything wrong with S-P-E-L-L-I-N-G it out for others ... Is there???

****UPDATE*****
I am starting to think that "MR RIGHT " isn't out there...
I have been out with a couple of guys from this site and OMG it's like I hit it off with them on line and on the phone but when I meet them in person ( i am so not a SHALLOW person but let's just say they ended up not being my type). I don't feel looks are everything I do feel that u (I) have to have some kind of physical attraction. (So with saying that)
If u have a pic. That is really old and u don't look anything like it please say so and if u have really have bad teeth please don't bother.(sorry)
UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE:::::
I AM NOT FINDING MR RIGHT.... SOMEONE WITH GREAT GOALS, CAN HOLD A GREAT CONVERSATION AND SOMEONE NOT TO MUCH INTO PARTYING( LOOKING FOR SOMEONE THAT'S READY TO SETTLE DOWN AND ARE PAST THE WHOLE PARTY ANIMAL STAGE) NOT A LAME BUT U KNOW WHAT i MEAN, AND IT'S NOT A BAD IDEA IF U'RE HANDSOME AND TALLER THEN ME...LOL I NLY RESPOND TO MEESSAGES WITH PIC'S (SORRY GUYS I FEEL THERE HAS TO BE SOME KIND OF ATTRACTION ...NOT TRYING TO SOUND SHALLOW)
INTO SUSHI???? EVEN BETTER...
IS HE OUT THERE?????? HMMM

I really can't answer this question only because every date is different. I am OPEn what do u have in mind?????