My children are grown and doing well in life. We are very close and they are my greatest accomplishment. My spiritual faith is based on a relationship and not a denomination. I have always tried to live my life with honor and character. Having said that, I still like to have fun and be a little adventurous when the opportunity presents itself. Been through some bumps and bruises but never lost my faith that there is someone that is right for each of us. Perhaps it just takes a little longer to find her sometimes. I still believe the goal is worth the effort. Over my years I have found that hearts can be like water wells. Some can be shallow and dry up when times get a little tough. Others can be posioned by life`s events and never offer anything of value again. A really deep well will reach all the way to your soul. If your heart is still true and loving then there will be more than enough water to nourish and protect a relationship that will last. So, I guess I`m looking for another " deep well".

I have no problem with decision making, however, on a first date from a dating site, I think that the lady should be the one to choose a place where she will feel both safe and content. That should be part of what I`m trying to bring into her life in the first place. :-)