The divorce is in. :) I am a single father of two children They are are wonderful. My son is 12 and my daughter is 13 (13 months apart) and are the greatest part of my life. Their mother returned to the addiction of her youth about 5 years ago which destroyed our marriage of then 9 years. I enjoy being dad, that's who I am. Yet still I need to take care me. So I am looking for a long term relationship. I don't drink or smoke and I don't date the girls that do :) We go to church weekly.

I have a great relationship with the kids papa my father n law which has helped greatly since my dad passed away 4 years ago. He realizes what has transpired and is supportive of me having the kids instead of his daughter. The kids and I see him at least 2 out of every 3 weeks. We also have a great relationship with his sister (she has a pool, but we's like her anyway even if she didn't :) )