I'm looking for someone similar to me in the personality department. If you feel compelled to help those that you can even when you don't see the immediate reward or even no reward at all. You also know you can't turn it off unless pushed to extreme measures, which this world seems to be full of. I am also looking for someone that is usually smiling or laughing with a very high set of morals or at least somewhat old fashion. To me a big part of a relationship is learning to understand your partner's needs and fulfilling those desires. I also feel if I had any habits that bothered you I would change them immediately. I'm hoping to find a woman who might feel the same way I do about relationships, that you feel compelled to do things that might make the other happy. Don't get me wrong I don't want much, just a faithful, tender, loving woman. Probably someone slightly older than me. Not more than 12 years older then me. I need a woman who is settled down, not trying to go to bars and clubs but loves the outdoors and nature. She most likely lives in the country or way out in the mountains no city slickers please. If you think you live too far out in the country you are probably the one I'm looking for. Maybe someone in the suburbs who has the desire to move to the country. She could be a teacher or farmer or even a scientist or counselor, someone who knows a little about the human condition. I'm not caught up on looks as much as I am personality. I'm the type of man who always feels rushed to get back to the one I love, that's one of the reasons why I work so hard during the day and week. My reward in life is being able to spend my free time with the woman I love. I've always been the hardest worker where ever I go. (There's been a couple that could hang with me but not everyday.) I work hard at everything I do, especially my relationship, since it is the single most important person in my life.(unless children are involved)They come first but you don't tell them that, lol. The child psychology tells us when you walk in the door after work you go to mom first and give her love and attention then the children. What this does is teach the child that mom is as important as dad and they both get the same respect. Later when mom and dad are in different places they give both of you the same respect. I know that sounds extremely cold and calculated but it's just how they work. Any child's main desire after the first 4 requirements are met is making mom and dad happy. My main desire is to get back to my sanctuary and the woman I love. I would love to listen to you tell me about your day while I hold you close and enjoy your warmth and energy. I love to give massages or just rub the day's knots out. I'm only a 7 out of 10 in looks on a good day, but my heart and effort makes up for a lot. I'm just a little shy until you get to know me then I warm up quickly. I'm looking for a kind, gentle, wise soul that can soothe me and love me faithfully. I like to learn anything new, I love all sports if I'm playing them. I never watch sporting events unless the person I'm with is watching them. I'm very easy to get along with, I'm very helpful around the house. I usually end up doing all the cooking and cleaning. I like to canoe, bike, camp anything outdoors. I like all kinds of music mostly classic rock but everything else. I would like to find a woman that has woke up early just to take a bike ride or walk and thought, thank you God for being so generous as to give me this life so freely, to do what ever I want to with it. Then feels compelled to do something good in this life to try and repay the favor, knowing it's next to impossible to ever return such a great gift. I want to share my life with this kind of woman. NEWS FLASH my mom's friend told me my problem was "I'm to good to be true". She has known me since I was 10 and she knows the truth. Ladies I have references, please get to know the real me. If you find me physically attractive then I will meet every other need and desire you have beyond your expectations. You will be pleasantly surprised. It might take a while as it should with most people but I'm guaranteeing it. If I disappoint you, you can take me out back behind the barn and shoot me. New Requirement if we meet, you owe me a slow dance.

A quiet walk along the beach sounds like a good conversation starter. Maybe pack a small picnic and a bonfire.(I would pack the wood and fire separately, safety first) some music barely playing in the background, not loud enough to interrupt the conversation. I would see it as an opportunity to get to know you better so I wouldn't waste it.