Yes, a dynamic confluence would be great. What would that be? Connection on many levels. Yes the physical stuff is important but combining that with emotional kinship is paramount. Agreed? I'm a realtor for almost six years now and was in the car biz(sales/finance manager) for eight years before that. I'm actually observing the economic "crisis" situation with an optimistic tone. I contend there's never been a better time to be alive than now and looking forward I see plenty of opportunity given the proper focus. Maybe it's because I realized as a young guy that each of us basically decides whether to be happy or not regardless of circumstance. In that respect I'm a very independent and self determined optimist. Still, sharing love, trust, and understanding in a relationship brings untold happiness. I'm not afraid to be the only one in the room who holds a particular opinion although I don't feel the need to push it. I like to stay fit by running, swimming, walking. I make a point of eating fruits/veggies but I also enjoy the occasional helping of red meat. The stuff I read tends to be financial market related but not just the technical aspects. I enjoy reading stories about people who have conquered mountain like obstacles during their snarling scrape to success. Especially those who are willing to reflect and laugh about it with self deprecating humility. As for social time I'm flexible. There are many options in this city but for me it's the company you share that matters more. Let's face it, eating, drinking, movie, music, theater, sports, etc...they're all fine and good but my fondest memories aren't because of a particular restaurant, bar, play, or game. Instead it's that connection I referred to at the start. So there's the basics, and I wish everyone all the best in your search.