Am somewhat new to the "scene" and interested in meeting some fun new people, looking for someone who does not mind going really S L O W.

I'm really interested in connecting...I need you to look into my eyes...hear me and let me hear you and see if we connect. I look for men who have heart, know their heart.

Well...Here's what I love: laughing, smiling, giggling, smirking (lol), learning new things, walking in nature (but not those crazy hike types of walks :),the ocean (Santa Cruz favorite town),long talks into the night, great movies, anything to do with Mexico and that culture (lived there when was a young girl), working on speaking Spanish with anyone who will let me practice it with them, being creative painting, writing, working on my business and lastly, my guilty little pleasure(ok one of them) = Bravo channel reality shows - love those!

Favorite music right now: R&B/Hip Hop - Ray J, MJB, MC, Robin Thick, old school Prince, Earth Wind and Fire, Commodores (Zoom!)...still love the classics of course!

What's important: Honesty, sincerity, big hearts, big smiles, excited interesting conversations, sweetness, understanding, compassion, knowing you & you knowing me, support, having someone's back, singing out loud (even if I don't know all the words), dance breaks at work :)- a man who knows himself WELL!!!!

If you know & like & love yourself then you are ready to know and like & love someone else!

Good first date - any opportunity to really get to know someone, so... a nice place to talk and see if we "click".