Hi thank you for stopping by. Well I have a nice smile, so I'm told. I enjoy music. My preference is R&B, jazz, pop,or adult contemporary. I enjoy good foods. So I like to dine out when I can. I try to eat healthy as often as I can. Its not true about the "Cops & Dunkin Doughnuts" Many police officers are very health conscience.Most police officers love to workout as well as watch what we eat. So don't believe the doughnut hype.
I also like to travel. I enjoy exploring and learning new things.

I enjoy life and meeting interesting people. I"m also a lyricist. Something I enjoy doing in my spare time. If there is something I haven't experience, which there is still many things I haven't. If you would love to share an experience or you'd like us to share in learning one together....I would welcome the opportunity.

I'm hoping to meet a down to earth, funny, smart, intelligent, creative woman. A lovely lady without the games and no drama. "We can't move into the future unless we're willing to let go of the past." Hopefully your a good cook. I understand most woman have demanding professions so you don't have a lot of time to spend in the kitchen. I understand that, so maybe I can prepare a meal for you. I also would appreciate honesty in you.

Are you tired of being or seeming stuck in the revolving door?..............

Would love to hear from you. So drop and email so we can learn more about each other and see if there is a chemistry.......Hope you have a loving and blessed day!

OH AND I PROMISE I'LL BITE! lol



HERE IS SOME INTERESTING READING:

Kahlil Gibran defines it as "spiritual affinity". It's the hidden element of chemistry. It's when two beings meet and connect on a deeper level. It can only be felt in the heart and soul. It's about friendship, respect, humor and the feelings of warmth and contentment that come when you are in his/her presence.

People often report finding one without the other. This is understandably a cause of great frustration and confusion about whom should we choose and why. In order to understand this better, it is helpful to know how and when each facet of chemistry occurs.Physical attraction (or lust) generally begins during our first contact with someone. It can DEVELOP into something more over time, yet some pull is there from the beginning. The chemical that results from this attraction (and intensifies it) is phenyl ethylamine - or PEA. It is a naturally occurring substance in the brain. Essentially, it is a natural amphetamine. It stimulates us and increases both physical and emotional energy. The attraction causes us to produce more PEA, which results in those dizzying feelings associated with romantic love. Another substance that is released by PEA is dopamine. This chemical increases a desire to be physically close and intimately connected.
When these chemicals are being secreted in larger doses, they send signals from the brain to the other organs of the body. If you wonder why you or someone is attracted to the "wrong" person, it may be because you are high on the physical response to these substances, which overwhelm your ability to use your head and exercise "good judgment and common sense".

"Spiritual affinity" develops over time and repeated contact. When these feelings begin to emerge, the brain produces endorphins. These are more like morphine and result in an increased sense of calm that reduces anxiety and helps to build attachment. As relationships move into this phase they are characterized by more comfort, commitment and friendship.

Generally speaking, all "soul mate relationships" require at least some measure of each of these. The important thing to remember is that they come in stages, which is not to say that the physical attraction passes as one moves into a deeper connection. However, it changes. We cannot sustain those intense emotions as we travel down the road to commitment and a shared life. However, in healthy relationships those moments of intensity can and do occur for brief intervals at intermittent times.

Remember not to confuse great sex or deep friendship with romantic love. Instead, look for a measure of both of these in your feelings for another. For then you have the ingredients that lasting love is made from.

A nice lunch or dinner,some good conversation getting to know each other. Hopefully some laughs. We can do what ever you would enjoy and that you are comfortable with.
I'm sure what ever it is we'll have a good time