http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6n3LQYB3xg&NR=1

Merry Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to ALL my Friends wherever you are... spreading the Warmth of Love and the Joy in Giving is indeed the most rewarding thing we can do for ourselves with no second thought of action. Be Gracious in who you are and Relish Every Moment of Life. My Love for you all is Endless. :)

Sometimes you really need to read out loud to hear the true meaning of what's penned on paper...

Am I supposed to be here? hmmm
I'm genuinely looking for quality, in giving, love, affection, consideration and courtesy. It's the want of strong yet gentle arms, butterflies of thought and anticipation... My gentle giant exudes strong calm confidence, sense of humour is a must... I'm sure there's lots to discover.

you know you're in love when:
Your day's not complete without seeing or talking to them @ least once.
Your heart breaks everytime they're upset & you want to do everything and more to make them smile.
You bring out the best in each other & life is a li'l brighter when they're by your side.
You can communicate different opinions without fighting and still smile when the talk is done.
You can spend hours just looking @ them and be happy like a pig in mud. :o)
You can truly forgive, forget and grow closer together afterwards!
You are willing to give up your side of the bed....for a night or two if they want, :oP LOL

From my desktop Moodometer:- Go ahead and pick one Hehehehee
THINK POSITIVE BE POSITIVE - good things come to those who have the patience to wait
GREAT JOB - give yourself a pat on the back, if you don't, who will
DAY DREAMING - a day from planning for the future
I'M UN-STOPPABLE - except maybe for lunch
I CAN HANDLE IT - unless by 'it' you mean my mother, in which case I'm going to have to delegate
TAKE THE HIGH ROAD - sometimes taking the road less travelled means having a faster commute
BLA BLA BLA.. - brainstorming in progress
CONTROL ALT DELETE - if only life were that simple
I AM AMAZING - you will not find a plain jane or ordinary joe sitting at this desk
THIS SUCKS - there is always tomorrow if today will ever end
I AM LISTENING - I just don't like what you are saying
I AM NOT ALWAYS RIGHT - but I am never wrong
100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEED - my satisfaction not yours
IT'S ALL ABOUT ME - so what's your problem
FEEL FREE TO HELP YOURSELF - I may have all the answers but I'm not the solution to your problem

now that we broke the ice...

Remember:- Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts. - Martin Buxbaum

Having fun and being happy are great features of a healthy life, but we simply need to start somewhere. 'Friends' - getting to know each other on one level. If the chemistry is there no doubt that special fuzzy feeling will develop?

Browsing profiles is entertaining to say the least. It seems that most men here are looking for their twin with benefits, perhaps their personal idea of perfection. Does that even exist? Most women here seem to be looking for their prince charming with a GQ body and perhaps money to match. Funny how women have fought long and hard for equality and liberation yet we tend to gently succumb and blend with the men we choose or who have chosen us (mutually of course) as opposed to adding to his lifes' existence and vice versa? Men and Women need not complete each other but 'complement and support' each other. So... I'm guessing that some essence of vanity prevails. I could be wrong.

I am gracious yet humble, eloquent and low maintainance, fit in anywhere kind of gal, open and honest - don't play head games. I value the safety and harmony of my family and close friends to the highest measure (you never know... you could be a part of this loving atmosphere). There is nothing that we would not do for each other. I am independent, reliable, responsible, considerate, insightful, empathetic, generous to a fault, witty and humourous, creative and artistic. I admire ambition and striving to be the best you 'you' can be. Everyone, even in union are still individuals and require 'private time' in maintaining their focus on true-self. I love my 3 to 4 inch heels so... and my sneakers work just fine too.

EVENTUALLY I feel I will seek the man that knows how to be with his woman - unconditionally (or maybe he'll find me first), I won't know when that will happen, could be tomorrow... LOL today's almost done. So... some thought provoking schtuff?
If you have kids - ok
If you have a job of any kind - ok
If you have your own place - ok
If you have your own car and valid licence - ok
If you can leave any negative baggage behind - ok
Pretty much like this: no money, no car, no manners... no way LOL
Good spelling, grammar and punctuation - Great! - perfection not mandatory oy..
Your confidence is not arrogance - Hooray!
You can laugh at my jokes (Geesh... I do!) and at yourself too sometimes - :)
You spend more time than me in the bathroom or in front of that mirror - hmmm n'ok
If you are a cling-on: meaning the need to have phone/physical contact every 15 minutes (excessive) - n'ok
If you are not willing to experience new things with me, not every day, but once in awhile - n'ok

Friends... always a good start.
Positive? check!
Motivating? check!
Funny.. Haha? check! (well... as much as possible, I'll sneak it in there somehow)
Sane? check! (ok... that's debatable)
... and the list goes on...

I'm prepared to get as much as I'm willing to give, simple.
Wear my heart on my sleeve, love humour, however you must love yourself first so that you can love me more... if that's possible. :)

Periodic updates may be added.
I wish us all great times here and the Best of Luck in finding what we're all searching for.

If I've added you to my Favourites - it's more than likely that I have read and like the qualities and description (yes, picless profiles too). So for those who prefer to have a posted pic for first contact you just might be missing out on quite the catch... (not specifically me) think about it. I know... you're simply inundated with these adds yet you can easily delete any profile from the list that doesn't grab ya! HaHa! Oh.. and if you add me and make no attempt to contact, please rest assured that I do append all Favorite Lists (yours and mine) periodically. What's the point if you never say hello. Really, why preference 'must have a picture to contact this user' if U Don't Have A Pic yourself? ROFL! Hmmm....... 'splain please Heheheee (shakes head in disbelief)
News Alert: Why indicate 'married' yet looking for 'fun chick for dating?' crappy relationship or not, that's disrespectf

Open to ideas... xcept bunjee jumpin! Hate the coffee interview process...
Not looking for the world in a hot minute, but at least come dressed nice enough to impress a gal (if you feel you have to ask... please do).