I am a down to earth, responsible guy who is tired of trying to meet women at bars and clubs. I do not believe a soul mate or even a good girlfriend can be found where massive quantities of alcohol are being consumed. I think it tends to cloud ones judgement just a little bit. Plus I don't want to tell my kids, "Well I was in a bar when I saw your mother stumble out of the ladies room...", not very romantic.

A little about me is that I love music, I can listen to just about anything as long as it isn't cheesy pop like the
Jonas Bros. or Miley Cyrus lol! I am a DJ on the weekends and a rep at a major communications company during the week. I wear many hats at work! My other passion is working on cars. You can find me and my friends working on one car or three at a time in my garage and driveway. Making things go fast is fun as long as we don't get tickets of course! If I'm tired of doing that a good book is always a nice retreat. I have pretty eclectic tastes so I can adapt to any situation. As long as it is enjoyable I will try anything as long as it won't land me in jail!

I am pretty big on family as I live in a large one. I have two sisters and a brother all younger as well as my mom. I am currently taking a break from school because I don't know what I want to do as a profession. I do want to go back because I want more from life.

What I am looking for in a woman is someone to compliment what I have going on in my life right now. I want a friend as well as a girlfriend to talk to, cuddle and be with. I do like to cuddle, it's not just for the ladies ;)! If you enjoy good cinema on my couch that is a plus. A sense of humor is a must as I am a bit of a clown at times! If you like sports and good music, we'll get along great!

Here's to finding my match.

The first date is a make or break event. To do it right there can be no cliches. You wanna make it interesting but not over the top. You gotta save something for dates two and three! You want to be able to talk so the movies are out. I'd probably do dinner then drinks/coffee. Or to go outside the box a picnic at the park. You get the scenery, and it seems more intimate then a restaurant. But as long as there is good company and conversation anywhere is cool.