Ok, where to start? How about the most important first, I am a mother of two darling little brats, and only I can call them that lol. My kids and my work are my life. I am a hospital secretary and I do taxes during that part of the year. Not very exciting, But I'm kind of a dork so I enjoy it. Outside of the work and kids grind, I honestly spend most of my time in bed. Sleep is like free halucinogenics with no negative physical side effects ;) (told you I was a dork)

I am a member of the YMCA and I usually go about three times a week to exercise and release tension. Please don't assume because I work out that I'm a health nut or a super slim gym bunny. That's not me. I love food and I work off some of the extra calories I ingest. Nothing more. The gym is a great way to relieve stress and it's good for you :)

I enjoy a few drinks on the nights I have free of work and the kids. I also love to play pool or anything with a little challenge. I tend to get spontaneous when I'm stressed. One if my favorite things to do is go after work to sleep the beach. I work nights and weekends which makes dating difficult but being a Mom easier. The latter takes preference. I'm usually up for randomness, like milkshakes at 3am, or rollerskating in the middle of the week.

It's the little things that make me smile. A txt to say hello, a surprise visit at work, or an email that just has a happy face LOL. Basically if I know that you are thinking of me, I'm a happy girl.


So, now here's the dirty ugly truth. I have issues. We all do. My personal issues revolve around problems with abandonment and a need for almost constant positive reinforcement. If you are not the kind of guy who loves to give lots of attention, then it's not going to work. Over the years of my life, I have learned that if I'm not #1 or atleast pretty high on the priority list, I'm not happy. And that, my dears, is why I'm single...

I am a big fan of originality. Dinner is always a good openner. A safe way to meet people without fear of being abducted LOL. But after that, I love anything unusual, if we can think of something we haven't done, or haven't done in a while, I'm all about it! New experiences are usually a great way to bond :)