I am looking for another musician (guitarist). Music is my passion. So I want to be with someone who has that same passion and creativity in their life. I play piano, guitar, sing, and write music. My dream is to create more music and I'd like it to be with the most important person in my life. Laughing is a must. I want someone that can make me laugh til I cry and even cheer me up on a bad day. Someone who can see the positive in anything even if there's nothing but bad news. I like a man with a sense of class and his own style, maybe a little dark and mysterious. Someone who isn't too materialistic.

I have a christian background. While I am not a bible thumper by any means, I still enjoy discussing various topics on the subject as well as many other ones. I'm also not into religion, rituals, or traditions. I am romantic and enjoy thoughtfulness, creativity, and sensuality. I also like a guy who pays attention to detail. That would also go for someone who actually reads this whole profile instead of just looking at pictures. When I'm with someone, I am only with them. I admire someone that keeps me interested and can enjoy even the small, simple things with me. Someone who is confident in himself and not arrogant.

I don't have any children of my own and I'm not interested in being with a single father. I haven't reached that chapter in my life yet. I'm also interested in someone who doesn't smoke, as I don't. Sports are also not a big interest of mine. I like guys who spend more of their time playing them than watching and constantly talking about them. Although, I might be willing to compromise and go to a baseball game since that's something I've never done. I like a man that has a creative side, down to earth, and very funny. Someone that is comfortable around me and easy going. I would like to be with someone that is on the same level as me and my equal as in lifestyle, finances, responsibility, loyalty, communication, goals...etc.

A little about me: I am not high maintenance at all. I can be stubborn and impatient in certain situations, and even jealous but only when provoked. I don't go for flirtatious guys, so if that's you then please move along. If a guy feels he has to lie to impress me, then he does not know me very well. I am very down to earth and accepting of people. I expect honesty and respect, because those are two very important things to me as well as communication. I'm also a massage therapist, so I can be very affectionate when I'm with the right person. I tend to like affection and attention as well. I love the fact that I get to help people with my job and make money all at the same time. This also means I enjoy giving massages to my significant other so you can count on that. :) I'm an independent woman, especially when I'm single, obviously. I don't need a man, but I definitely want one in my life who is also independent. When I'm in a relationship, I want to spend a majority of my time with that person. Mostly because my friends aren't always around. So I expect someone to be just as dedicated to me as I am to them. :) To me love is the most meaningful thing in life!!!

OMG,OMG,OMG....she looked at my profile!! (This is where you laugh) I click the pictures on this site. It's what I do. This doesn't necessarily mean anything unless I actually contact you. So don't ask me to write you. If I want to, I will. If not, then I'm probably not interested. "Get off yourself". :) Again, if this all sounds too picky or serious, then I'm probably not the right kind of person for you. And I'm not typing all of this to sound arrogant, I know what I want and I just want to be honest. I'd just rather get all the red tape out of the way instead of lead someone to wonder what I'm really all about. Sorry my profile isn't sugar coated and fluffy. On a much lighter note, if you dig what I'm saying and can understand where I'm coming from, please message me. I'd love to hear from you!

"It's better to have your heart stirred than to let it go cold like stone." -ME.

"The passion in our nature urges a human being to choose "the one precious thing," and urges him to pay for it through poverty, conflict, deprivation, labor, and endurance of anger from rejected divinities. It is the warrior that enables the human being to decide to become a musician only, or a poet only, or a doctor only, or a hermit only, or a painter only. It is the lover in a man or woman who loves the one precious thing, and tells him what it is; but it is the warrior in Rembrandt or Mirabai who agrees to endure the suffering the choice entails."

—Robert Bly, Born: December 23, 1926

I have hoped as many hopes and dreamed so many dreams, seen them swept aside by weather, and blown away by men, washed away in my own mistakes, that — I use to wonder if it wouldn't be better just to haul off and quit hoping. Just protect my own inner brain, my own mind and heart, by drawing it up into a hard knot, and not having any more hopes or dreams at all. Pull in my feelings, and call back all of my sentiments — and not let any earthly event move me in either direction, either cause me to hate, to fear, to love, to care, to take sides, to argue the matter at all — and, yet ... there are certain good times, and pleasures that I never can forget, no matter how much I want to, because the pleasures, and the displeasures, the good times and the bad, are really all there is to me. And these pleasures that you cannot ever forget are the yeast that always starts working in your mind again, and it gets in your thoughts again, and in your eyes again, and then, all at once, no matter what has happened to you, you are building a brand new world again, based and built on the mistakes, the wreck, the hard luck and trouble of the old one.
Woodrow Wilson "Woody" Guthrie (July 14, 1912 – October 3, 1967)