May you and your family have a Happy New Year, filled with many cherished memories....

Hello and Thank for taking the time to visit my profile.

One huge correction to this profile. My age is listed as 49, I am actually 47. It was a glitch I did not see until too late.

My 2010 wish for everyone...

May you find and hold what your heart desires in 2010. That you will share these moments and create new lasting memories. Cherished in every way. That your moments are no longer lonely.

A little about me...I am some one that believes that life is to be shared. To be true unto one. This refers to living a code long forgotten in today's world as it is. It is a code of a Knight. That may sound strange, however, it carries honor, being just, helping others and staying true unto one. I am patient, understanding and forgiving. I am told I am an optimist and have a big heart. I can take a bad situation and see the good or the lesson in it.

I am Christian. This does not make me perfect. I do believe in God's word and promises. It seems recently I have been sharing Psalms 91, 1Corinthians 10:13 and 1Corinthians 13:13 with many around me.

Someone once shared with me, marriage is two imperfect people, in an imperfect world, trying to do life right. Makes sense.

To me a relationship is "two as one". Being true unto one another. Traveling life together in the calm and storms of life. being one anothers best friend and partner. Being accountable to the one that holds your heart. Being a part of seeing that their dreams, desires and goals in life are achieved. That's giving to another before yourself.

I do believe in the Happy Ever After. After all, isn't what is between two and what they hold together create their happiness?

I am creative and am Artist. I write and create drawings that are hand carved into mirrors. My art is nautical based, using lighthouses as the foundation of the mirrors. I recently completed a mirror of a picture f a friends wife for their Anniversary.

I enjoy the Holidays. Christmas being my favorite. It's a time that holds remembrance and romance. To be honest I have spent the last three alone. Not something anyone would enjoy. If I were to say, you can be around others, including family, yet feel alone, would that make sense? I have hope that one day this will change.

I enjoy cooking. My family has a Pennsylvania Dutch heritage. The recipes were taught to me as I grew up. Thust I continue doing what I enjoy, cooking for others.
It funny, when I do cookies around the Holidays, I am everyone's best friend..lol.

I am 5'11" and weigh 175-180 lbs. I am slender. People around me say that I look younger than my age. I thank God and my mother for that one. I actually feel way younger than the number I carry as age. As for my hair style, I keep my hair cut close.

Some say I carry myself well. I can only say, it is what the eyes of another see. What is a gift or a treasure to one, may not be seen the same to another. Something we should all be thankful for.


This is a gift we all seek. The gift of happiness, joy, adventure, family and success with someone.

I would enjoy meeting my best friend. My companion, my partner. The one that will claim my heart. That will hold the relationship dear and not let anyone, nor the world enter it. Someone that believes in family and building a relationship.

I believe in Respecting, Honoring, Being Faithful unto the one that holds my heart. A relationship is a precious gift.

I am one that enjoys eyes. Looking into anothers eyes speaks truth of the person. It is also respect to do so. So they may also see the truth in my eyes.

Let me share this, no one is perfect, I know this. The body will always change. For me, that's why I look to the eyes and heart of a person, if that makes sense. For that is what truly holds someone.

I can only hope that the one that is to claim me will find me. May we find one another.

Thank you for taking the time with me and reading my profile.

Always remember, as I say, "Your actions will speak volumes of whom you are."

May Happiness and Success be yours.

You know, the thing about being alone, is being alone.
It would be wonderful to actually find another that wants to change the "Being Alone" part... This my friends, is straight from the heart.

July 28, 2009

Last year about this time, I lost a precious part of me. My Grandfather passed. A man unlike any in the world. One that held to life and his relationship, my Grandmother whom he met in the 5th grade. Imagine, meeting in the 5th grade and being together since. He was 91 when we lost him. Today, as last year, I have received word from back home, my cousin has died. A man who served and protected the community on the local police. A man who treated all fairly and advanced to Detective. I said it earlier, even with in these moments felt. The hardest thing about being alone, is being alone.

August 27, 2009

Here it is again. I have to wonder what the moments hold. You hope with every log in, you may be doing so for the last time. That the moment will come to where the "Alone" thing ends. To be in the eyes of the one to share and be with. As I have watched many a Holiday come and go, it seems this Birthday is going to hold the same again. Wow, how wishes go out with heart felt hope.. It truly is amazing how empty life can truly feel at times....

August 31, 2009-The Birthday week.

October 10 I Still Believe She Is Out There, Some Where. Hidden just as I am. I Pray I will Find You, the "One" to share with.

November 7, 2009
Funny as we all watch time escape us. We speak of missing the moments shared with another. Longing to have that hand in ours that adds to the enjoyment of life. Deep in our hearts, as we watch around us, we tune in on the couples walking, laughing, holding. All the while in our hearts, that desire eats away at us with wanting. Last night, in the silence, here on the site. I watched as many logged on. I couldn't help to wonder, with so many of us seeking, there should be a drop in the numbers logging on. Each heart carries a desire of the one they seek. Many speak of chemistry and other reasons to remain as they are, in the comfortable, unable to move into the realms of chance and the unknown. To stay as they are, alone, comfortable in their own skin. However, by doing this we cheat ourselves of what can or could be. Taking away the journey and adventure of life. To be able to set out and actually explore the unknown is a gift. Remember, a ship is not meant to remain in safe a harbor. Such as we are, to take the journey of life. The moments of happiness and storms. We all desire the moment when our hearts find what we seek. To all, I say again, my wish is for everyone here is to share the Holidays

I believe the meeting should be as relaxed. Dinner, an amusement park, dancing. It would all depend on the interests discussed.

Please Note Correction:

"You can change your birthday and gender within 2 weeks of signing up. After that it is assumed to be correct and can't be changed".

The above statement is from POF on "Update Registration". Due to this, my age is showing 49. I was unaware that the year was wrong and the two week window closed. I am actually 47. I am sorry this is wrong above. A male moment lol


Washington, DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007, a man plays a violin.

The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2 thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle-aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.

4 minutes later:

The violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk..

6 minutes:

A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

10 minutes:

A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The child stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.

45 minutes:

The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a true story.

Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and people's priorities. The questions raised: In a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments.. How Many Other Things Are We Missing??