It became apparent to me that at some point we(maybe our generation) had missed the boat when it comes to relationships. So many failed marriages, including mine. Recently, I have had the opportunity to speak to a few people who are in their 80's and happily, not miserably, married for over 60 years. They are incredible people. They have explained that it is an absolute must to be your partners friend first. It worked for them so .......

Also, from my perspective if one starts hanging out as friends, there is no particular need for fears around will I get along with the kids, because there are no musts. One can have a friend and not participate in childrens lives, or other more intimate aspects. Eventually, I hope that someone, a friend first, will fit in all aspects of my life and decide then to be a part of it. Until that time, I believe being a freind is the ticket and being a friend is a great way to spend my time anyway.

I have been told I am very fun to be around, easy going and relaxed, many have said they feel comfortable with me very quickly. I love to go for adventures, day trips, hikes, a ferry ride for the fun of it, walk or bike the sea wall, I can't wait to try kayaking. Anyway, if you are looking to meet someone, nice, motivated, responsible, integrity intact, who refuses to engage in head game or temper tantrum, etc. well here she is.

I don't know, something fun, dancing, playing tennis (I love it but I am bad at it), going for a bike ride or walk on the Sea Wall or I don't know, what do you like to do? maybe a hike, mountain climbing(baaaa), sushi anyone? Something we can do, while getting to know each other, oh and laughing, cuz crying on our first time out might be a bad sign, some people actually enjoy my company, lol. Spontaneous fun is the best.