(8/26/09) here we go again... had kind of a stalker experience this time. i am a VERY busy lady, so if i don't respond right away or at all, please don't take it to mean i am a "stuck up b*tch", which i have recently been called. also, if i don't respond at all, that is me doing the nice thing and letting u know i'm not interested without actually having to say it. i don't like to be mean (unless someone deserves it) so it what it is, k? k!

(6/14/09)Ok fellas.. had some bad luck on here so I'm back to try it again! BE WARNED: If you have any interest at all in your ex girlfriend, DON'T CONTACT ME!!! ya think that would be a given, but some guys just don't have a lot of common sense, it seems, in that department (no offense to those that do)

I am a (very) outspoken person who is bold around her friends and shy around a guy I think is cute. Very firm believer in loving like you've never been hurt. I have 2 beautiful daughters, ages 12 and 9, who are completely insane, freakin hilarious, and my everything. I am in college full-time (better late than never) and I work full-time at a hospital as a switchboard operator. I don't have a lot of free time and what time I do have, I spend with my kids. But since they do go spend time with family on occasion, I figured this might be an opportunity to meet new people and get back out into the social scene. i am a HUGE Jesus freak. i believe that if God will take you to it, He will take you thru it! there is nothing too big for Him to handle and there is a lesson to learn from every situation, good or bad (and i've pretty much been thru them all). i am a major smart-ass, so people who don't have a sense of humor "need not apply". Life & all it's tribulations are hard enough as it is, might as well be positive & make it fun while you still have a life left to live. i can't live a day of my life without music. love all kinds, blues, rap, r&b, rock, jazz, heavy metal, all of it! i can go from listening to Johnny Cash, to Janis Joplin, to Slipknot, to Biggie, to Gnarls Barkley, to Nina Simone, to Etta James, to Jay-Z, to...oh man, i could go on and on... i'm pretty much open to anything, always ready to hear new stuff. i'm a girly girl and a tom boy wrapped up into one sweet package! being a brickmason's daughter i prefer men who are country boys, even if ur just a country boy at heart. southern transplants are also welcome! i used to have a "type" of guy that i was attracted to, but i'm really trying to open my mind away from that considering my "type" hasn't really worked out so far. some of my favorite things to do are go to concerts, take my kids to the park or for a long walk to nowhere in particular, take day trips to the mountains, sit on my front porch enjoying a cold glass of ice tea, having a good conversation, sitting up till the buttcrack of dawn cracking up laughing with good friends or just reading a good book. i LOVE LOVE LOVE football! huge panther's fan. if you want to know more you can also check me out at my-space, face-book, or ya-hoo, just ask...




A southern girl is a girl who knows full and well that she can open a door for herself, but prefers for a gentleman to do it because it demonstrates a sense of respect. We know how to make sweet tea and grits while telling you everything about any football team in the NFL. We pick our battles and fight with the heart of a pit-bull while still maintaining grace and elegance. Our mystique is that of a soft-spoken, mild-mannered southern belle, who could direct an army, loves her mama, and will always be daddy's little girl! Growing up Southern is a privilege, really. It's more than where you're born. It's an idea and a state of mind that seems imparted at birth... we don't become Southern. We're born that way...

She got her daddy's tongue and temper, sometimes her mouth could use a filter, God shook his head the day he built her, but then I bet he smiled. She loves and lives her life unruly, tears up that dirt road in a dualy, dangerous absolutely. (it's really a minivan aka: the pimp wagon)

meet in a very public place (cause i don't know you, man), maybe at starbucks (cause they're on every corner), get a caffeine buzz, laugh awkwardly at each others lame jokes to break the silence, and i'm predicting that i would do most of the talking cause that's what i do when i'm nervous...talk, talk, laugh, sip my latte, talk some more...

just keepin it real, fellas...