Update again: Yes another update, let me explain one thing, I am sick of men telling me that they want a good woman when they don't know what a good woman looks like. Meaning, they look at the outside first and try and think they can measure her up. When women know what a man thinks he is looking for she plays the part and you guys keep over looking the right ones that is why you get the wrong ones. So why don't you try closing your eyes and listen to words and the heart she will give you the truth if you want to see it. With that said I am doing the same things so you game players leave me alone and move on to the woman that is made for your games. I have been called bugee, a want-to-be, and things because I read and like different things and don't just do the normal black girl thing (sterotyping of course), what is a black or white thing anyway? Hell I am just me! You either like it or don't no playing here. I am a mother of course my kids are almost all grown I have a few more years and I will have time on my hands to give to a special someone and I would like to meet him now so that we can work on a relationship that would last. Get to know my heart and let me get to know yours. I would want to be close enough to read you in any situation even if others couldn't. Close to you as close could be is what I desire in a relationship. Two can't be one if one is unable to understand and do. Well ask questions and you will get answears.

My first date would be quiet so we could talk and get to know each other.